08/20/2026
One of the biggest misconceptions about handling puppies for grooming is that they need to "get used to it."
So people sometimes hold paws, poke ears, manipulate legs, restrain puppies, or keep touching them while the puppy is desperately struggling.
That's not really teaching a puppy to be comfortable with handling. It's teaching them that they don't have a choice, and that handling is no fun at all. Some dogs will acclimate - learn to sort of "give up" and tolerate it. And some will escalate to screaming and biting.
Instead, the better way is to build a positive emotional association with being handled.
Start with an amount of handling your puppy is genuinely comfortable with. Pair it with something they love. Then, gradually and thoughtfully, increase the intensity, duration, or sensitivity of the handling while continuing to make sure they're comfortable.
Touch → treat.
Touch → treat.
Touch → treat.
Over time, the puppy learns:
"When people handle me, good things happen."
That's a very different lesson from "I have to put up with this."
And that difference can matter a whole lot when your puppy eventually needs a nail trim, ear cleaning, grooming appointment, veterinary exam, or emergency care. 💛🐾
Thanks to Cody the corgi, Rose the pit bull, Benson the mini dachshund, and Neelix the border terrier for demontrating for us in Puppy Kindergarten class!