
08/16/2025
So True… continuous education for yourself is as important as for your horse.
If your horse is confused, it’s on you.
If he’s frustrated, it’s on you.
If he’s not improving, it’s still on you.
Harsh? Maybe.
But that’s leadership.
Blaming the horse is easy.
“Stubborn.”
“Lazy.”
“Spooky.”
Those words let you off the hook.
They protect your ego while your partnership falls apart.
They create dead ends that stop us from asking “why”.
Owning your mistakes is harder.
It means admitting your timing was off.
That you asked too soon.
That you pushed too far.
That you ignored the signs.
That you didn’t prepare him for the situation you put him in.
Accountability is the fastest path to growth.
When you own it, you can fix it. You can slow down, get clearer, get calmer, and teach better.
Stop blaming.
Start owning.
That’s when the real progress starts.
-Julia Williamson | The Horse Center, 2025