08/31/2026
I cringe looking back at these photos...
One of my dogs decided he hated all dogs.
When he started fighting with my other male dog in the house, that's when I started researching all of the dog trainers I could find.
I started doing what everyone recommended to do to fix the problem.
Multiple walks per day.
Place training (insert eye roll here).
A slip lead (yup, I used to be pro-aversives prior to becoming a dog trainer).
Kongs.
Puzzle Toys.
Snuffle Mats.
Look at this screenshot.
I had it all scheduled out like the Type A person I used to be.
I did all the obedience classes.
Trick Dog.
Canine Good Citizen (all 3 levels).
Don't get me wrong, I learned a lot.
But I lived that life so I could tell you this...
None of it worked.
I was going above and beyond what most people do with their dogs.
I was doing everything a "good" dog owner was supposed to do.
None of it worked because I was using training to try to solve a problem that wasn't a training problem at all.
I wish someone had told me there was more to his elbow dysplasia than "Carprofen as-needed".
I wish someone had said "let him be a dog" and shown me what that was supposed to look like.
I wish someone had told me what enrichment REALLY meant.
Because the times he DID get to tap into those genetic needs, the boy SHINED!
And his problem behaviors decreased.
Not having this information cost my dog his life.
But it forced me to raise my standard of what dog ownership is.
Opie went 6 years without attacking another dog.
Until one day I left an empty dog food bag out and my other dog walked past it.
Opie attacked the other dog who never saw it coming.
I couldn't ignore the issues that his elbow dysplasia was causing him anymore so I chose to behaviorally euthanize him.
He is the reason I will never again measure success or good dog ownership by obedience, titles, walks, or how many enrichment toys a dog has.
I can't go back in time, but I can make damn sure that more dog owners know that there is more to behavior dysfunction than "more training" and "obedience".
If this feels familiar, what have you tried with your own dog and what still isn't working?