10/22/2026
🐾 When Bo Meets the Rules: Corrections, Boundaries, and the Training Balance 🐾
Playdates aren't just about burning energy—they are a masterclass in canine communication. Today’s meetup with Buttercup, Skye, Lula, Bo, and June Bug provided a massive breakthrough, alongside a few great reminders on dog boundaries.
Bo doesn’t always dive headfirst into the pack. She likes being included, but it has taken her a very long time to let her guard down and feel vulnerable enough to truly play in outdoor, multi-dog environments. While she trusts this group implicitly (and has known Buttercup and Skye for years), actively engaging in physical play is still rare for her.
Today, she took that leap! But because she has had so few instances of letting her guard down over the years, she’s still learning how to play properly. Dogs move at their own pace, and Bo is still figuring out the etiquette.
When Bo initiated play by jumping on Buttercup, nipping her and boxer-pawing at her face, THREE STRIKES. Buttercup threw out an immediate correction sequence, which Bo was NOT responding to and respecting, AT ALL. STRIKE FOUR. Most dogs will not tolerate being whacked with a paw or nipped—it's offensive in dog language! Because Bo historically doesn't take Buttercup's corrections well, Skye stepped in with perfect, pro-level timing to diffuse the tension before anything escalated anymore.
Buttercup has gotten so much better at letting Skye manage these moments. While Buttercup hates escalation, she also strictly enforces the rules—it is The Buttercup Bunch, after all! 🐶 Group dynamics are all about these subtle checks and balances.
Even though Buttercup lost interest after the rough start, Bo tried again with a slightly softer approach. Buttercup was having none of it, threw out another subtle correction, to which Bo once again did not respect. Guess who stepped in to remind her about the lesson she gave her 10 seconds earlier......
So, bigger question....Why is Bo not respecting Buttercup's corrections and rules? Well, part of that is her breed and personality type. However, the biggest issue is that she claims me as hers and so does Buttercup.... A very delicate balance to manage as a dog trainer and best friend to ALL dogs. ;)