13/08/2026
Getting a dog shouldnât start with âWhich puppy should we get?â
It should start with âWhat kind of dog can genuinely thrive in our family?â đž
This week I spoke to a first-time dog-owning family with a 15-year-old teenager who wanted advice before choosing their dog.
Theyâre an active family who love hiking, paddleboarding and travelling around the UK and Europe in their campervan â so we looked at their lifestyle, what they want from their future dog, breed traits, where to get a dog from, and the realities of different options.
We also discussed what I wouldnât recommend for them, including brachycephalic breeds. Not because flat-faced dogs are âbadâ, but because their anatomy can make recognising subtle signs of breathing difficulty, overheating and discomfort more challenging, particularly for first-time guardians.
And after considering all of that?
Theyâre now looking at Flat-Coated Retrievers or show-line Golden Retrievers â breeds that potentially fit much better with the life they want to share with their dog.
And this is exactly why I love these conversations.
Iâm not here to tell you âget this breed.â
Iâm here to help you understand why certain dogs may or may not fit your lifestyle.
Because choosing the right dog isnât about finding the most popular breed, the cutest puppy or the dog youâve always dreamed of.
Itâs about finding a good match.
And honestly, the best time to speak to a trainer isnât when everything has already gone wrong.
Itâs before you even get the dog. â¤ď¸