10/17/2026
AM I BEING ABUSED?
People are often puzzled to see a service dog organization take such an interest in domestic oppression awareness.* However, the most common request we receive is a service dog for domestic violence PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder). Domestic violence is an epidemic that is close to our hearts.
It takes about two years to train one of our dogs. Walking alongside these people during that time leaves an impact on you. You really can't be only a dog trainer while watching such heartbreak. I've spent a lot of time praying He'd use me to provide what might be the first safe place they've had and a steady shoulder to lean on.
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No one wants to believe it could happen to them. Worse, it's often being done by someone you love, which can create a desperate longing for denial. Am I being manipulated? It's an emotionally devastating question to have to ask yourself. 💔
People struggle to see it for a reason. They aren't crazy.
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Please read through the questions in the pictures. They can help guide your understanding of what is or is not happening. If you're concerned, please seek help or more information:
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BOOKS
"Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft
"The Verbally Abusive Relationship" by Patricia Evans
"Behind the Veil" & "Narcissism" by Warren Lamb (Christian)
"Is It Abuse?" by Darby Strickland (Christian)
Many of these have eBook or audio book versions if you need to be discreet.
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NATIONAL
NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE
1-800-799-SAFE (7233) / Text "START" to 88788
TheHotline.org
NATIONAL TEEN DATING ABUSE HELPLINE
1-866-331-9474 / Text "LOVEIS" to 22522
LoveIsRespect.org
DOMESTIC ABUSE HELPLINE FOR MEN & WOMEN
More oriented to men than the main line.
1-888-7HELPLINE (743-5754)
STRONG HEARTS NATIVE HELPLINE
Native American survivors
1-844-7NATIVE (762-8483) / Text "START" to same number
StrongHeartsHelpline.org
VICTIM CONNECT RESOURCE CENTER
Resources for crime victims
1-855-4VICTIM (484-2846) / Text same number
VictimConnect.org
OTHER RESOURCES
Office of the Attorney General
https://www.oag.state.va.us/national-domestic-violence-resources-hotlines
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U.P. LOCAL
TRI-COUNTY SAFE HARBOR (shelter & other services)
Escanaba, Menominee, & Manistique
"A safe shelter and help for domestic and sexual abuse survivors. Our services are free and confidential... Serving men, women and children." - https://safe3c.com/
24 Hour Crisis Line: (906) 789-1166 or 1-800-682-1649
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063562902101
THE WOMEN'S CENTER (shelter, counseling, advocacy, & other services)
Marquette - "Provides programs and services in Marquette and Alger Counties that Protect, Educate, Advocate, Counsel, and Empower all survivors of domestic and sexual violence."
(906) 225-1346 / [email protected]
https://www.facebook.com/womenscenter
https://wcmqt.org/
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*Note: Because it's October, we're focused on domestic violence and couples, but I don't want to diminish awareness that these manipulative and controlling dynamics can occur in any relationship:
Parent & child. Siblings. Boss & employee. Coworkers. Doctor & patient. Pastor & church member. Counselor & counselee. Friends. Students. Roommates. One-on-one or one to many...
If you've experienced this with someone who was not an intimate partner, you aren't alone either.