09/14/2025
Zac and Turtle graduated puppy kindergarten! 🎉
Now be prepared for the novel, the 1.5 hour ride home gives me lots of thinking time.
It’s easy to compare yourself to others. I think I do a really good job of staying in my lane and acknowledging what is realistic for myself and my family. But I know it is hard for others. Turtle is now 16 weeks and only knows a handful of things, most not on verbal cue. There are many puppies her age doing many different tricks already. And that’s ok. That is not what I need to focus my time on.
I have had many years to come to terms with the fact that I make decisions and I live in those decisions. When I make a decision, it’s here to stay and I am comfortable with that. I have always been this way. I know what I want, when I want it, and I get it. Having kids “young” meant I had to miss a lot of dog sport events and opportunities. (This was right when having kids around 23 was starting to become young) at first I was sad, but I was also aware that it was my choice to have a child (literally. I made the choice to get off birth control because we wanted a child). So while I was sad, I knew I made the choices I wanted to.
I have different goals that may look weird to people than others because of our lifestyle. Everyone’s will look different. Sometimes it’s easy to get distracted and want the “shiny thing” (oh look, that puppy can do all the cool tricks already), but we have to remember that their goals are not our goals.
So what are my current goals? A solid house dog who knows when it’s settle time (hello five dogs in a house that are all out at the same time). A solid dog around children. While my kids are older, we have young neighbors and we have high hopes of therapy work. Solid out and about manners. We work a ton of reinforceable behaviors that don’t really have a cue. Staying close by in a busy area, watching people walk by without lunging or barking, not jumping on people, being able to settle quietly while we eat or talk. A solid dog in the crate. With all our travel, this is a MUST!
But the biggest thing to come from this puppy class? Continued in the comments below!!! —>