07/17/2025
The heartbreak is the WORST, especially when it's extenuating circumstances no one can fix ๐
๐จ INSTRUCTOR REALITY CHECK ๐จ
Things They Don't Tell You About Teaching Riding:
๐ "If you can ride, you can teach"
REALITY: Being a good rider โ being a good teacher. Pedagogy, psychology, and communication skills matter more than your last show ribbon.
๐ฑ "Students will respect your time"
REALITY: You'll get calls at 10 PM asking about tomorrow's lesson and texts asking if "light rain" means lessons are cancelled.
๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ "Parents will appreciate your expertise"
REALITY: Dr. Google and YouTube make everyone an expert. You'll defend basic safety protocols to parents who "know better."
โ๏ธ "Work outside in beautiful weather"
REALITY: You'll teach in 100ยฐF heat, freezing rain, and hurricane-force winds.
๐ "Share your passion with others"
REALITY: You'll love seeing breakthroughs but watching students quit due to money, fear, or teenage drama will break your heart repeatedly.
๐ "Great work-life balance"
REALITY: Weekends and holidays are your busiest times. Date nights happen on Mondays (if you're lucky).
BUT HERE'S THE TRUTH:
Despite all this, when a scared kid gets their first canter or an adult conquers their fear... when you see that spark in someone's eyes as they connect with their horse...
You remember why you chose this impossible, beautiful, crazy career.
The hard parts make the magic moments even more precious.
Been there? What reality check would you add? ๐