04/13/2026
The best approach? None.
None at all.
I want a dog to feel safe.
Secure.
To understand, clearly, that I am no threat.
And the quickest way to do that?
Take the pressure right off.
No reaching. No leaning in and no stepping into their space.
Because the moment you move toward them, or bend down in an attempt to connect with them, you’ve already changed how it feels for them.
Dogs don’t need us to prove we’re friendly.
They need us to be non-threatening.
There’s a big difference.
And this isn’t just about them.
It’s about you too.
You may know nothing about this dog. That matters.
If you crouch down right in front of them, you’ve just put yourself in a compromised position.
Your centre of gravity is now off.
Your movement will then be slower.
Your ability to step away quickly is reduced.
If this dog reacts?
You’ve lost those crucial seconds and your face is right there directly in front of theirs.
So, try this instead
Turn your body.
Stay upright.
Give lots of space.
Let them decide if they want to come closer.
Because the clearest and best message you can send a dog is this:
I’m not here to pressure you.
Shared from another trainer.
