04/09/2026
The Honest Vet - this is for you.
We may have gone to the same school, sat in the same rooms at one point, but we grew up to be different people. You grew to be a publicly lauded beacon of influence in this community unaware or uncaring of the harm you cause. No one can keep a platform and influence without accountability. Hundreds of thousands of people look up to you, and you have in a sense betrayed them. You value honesty and transparency - this is exactly that.
You may have your feelings hurt by this, but I challenge you to think long and hard why that is. Because you wanna know what 'hurts people's feelings'? Racism, which kills people every day. White people, you and I, are inherently racist, even if our only manifestations of that are unconscious or implicit biases. It's not enough to not be "not racist". You need to be anti-racist. So here is to our commitment to be actively anti-racist, and do better, especially as white people in a predominantly white profession.
Bigotry isn't openly saying slurs or the K*K or Blackface only... It's the microaggressions, the greenlighting content that's hurtful, the jokes that aren't funny, and the centering of your own feelings as a white woman when someone says "hey this is hurting people". If that is confusing, please feel free to look up the pyramid of white supremacy for reference.
Privilege takes many forms, but one is the ability to hurt those around you while simultaneously thinking you're the victim. You have a unique opportunity to use your privilege and platform for good; this is your opportunity to do so.
May this uncomfortable moment in time contribute to a new evolution of being The Honest Vet.