20/10/2026
🐾 Training Tips Tuesday: Working with Separation Anxiety 💛
Does your dog struggle when you leave them alone? Barking, howling, pacing, panting, destroying things or toileting can all be signs that your dog is finding separation difficult.
💡 The key is to change how your dog feels about being alone, not simply teach them to tolerate it.
Here are five things to remember when working with separation anxiety:
🐶 1. Start where your dog feels safe.
Begin by building the skills that your dog is going to need in order to be left alone, grow disengagement skills, optimism, tolerance of frustration
⏱️ 2. Grow their love of beds/crates/baby gates
Increase duration in those places gradually in tiny steps, watching your dog’s body language carefully. Progress isn’t always linear, and that’s absolutely fine!
🙅♀️ 3. Presence doesn’t mean access
Teach them that just because you are at home it doesn’t mean they can have immediate access to you. This helps prepare them for your future separation
🧠 4. Work on duration, distance, visual access, employment (chews/kongs/lickimats etc) and disturbance and make sure these are solids before you attempt to leave
🧡5. Never let your dog panic or leave them unsupported before they have the skills to cope.
✨ Remember: Separation-related problems aren’t stubbornness, spite or your dog trying to manipulate you. Your dog is communicating that being alone is difficult for them.
If your dog is struggling, work with a qualified, reward-based professional experienced in separation-related behaviours. For severe distress, veterinary support is important too.
💬 Have you supported a dog with separation difficulties? What small steps helped you make progress?
Norah and Mabel are making great progress with learning to love their beds and understand that their Mum and Dad aren’t always immediately available!