25/07/2026
Thank you 🫶🏼
Thank you to the client (you know who you are), who helped me make the most difficult decision of my life so far.
I’m sorry I’ve been so silent this week. I, like you, also have pets. And I may be a vet, but I face the same emotions and decisions as you for my own pet family.
Those of you who know Tinky, my terrier, will know she has been poorly for the past two years. She had chronic kidney disease and also battled dementia and arthritis. She also had extreme anxiety. We spent most of her life trying to support her with her nervousness and helping her live the best life she could. She wasn’t the perfect pet. She hated children and hated change. But she loved me and I her, and I did everything I could to help her live a happy life. We hired behaviourists, we even went through referral to seek help for her anxiety and attended anxiety classes with the rspca. She started life a normal puppy. She went to puppy classes, socialisation sessions, but she was fearful of new people as soon as she was spayed at 6 months and for this reason I will always discuss every pro and con of this with my clients to ensure we make the right decision. Hindsight is a wonderful thing and we now know spaying slightly later is the better approach 💔
Earlier this week, I saw an amazing client who too had a dog with similar problems. I knew deep down Tinky’s time was coming but I’ve been battling with my ‘professional opinion’ and my heart. We cried lots of tears together. His bravery allowed me to find my inner strength and yesterday we said goodbye to my sweet girl.
Surrounded by love. At home. With her family by her side. It’s the hardest euthanasia I’ve ever had to do. But it was also the biggest act of love I could have ever given her.
It was 10:30pm but Laura at Stamford Pet & Equine Crematorium was right on the end of the phone. Supportive. Kind. An ear and a friend.
Today I am slightly broken but so grateful my little love could find peace. Sleep tight Tinky. You’re a good girl. And I love you xx 🌈💕