25/08/2026
Training isn’t just about getting your dog to do things, it’s relationship building, developing trust by creating positive experiences with you.
Spend calm, unhurried time together - sitting beside them on their bed, on the floor or even on the sofa, if allowed. Watch television together, pause outdoors to calmly observe the world and notice those quiet moments when your dog feels safe and relaxed. Gentle massage can also help your dog to settle and connect with you. Try soft chest circles, ear slides, a gentle jaw hold, strokes from the neck to the tail or light pressure around the ribs and chest. There should never be any force - just calm breathing, a soothing voice and gentle reassurance.
Explore new environments together, enjoy interactive games and make everyday interactions kind and positive. Over time, these shared experiences strengthen your bond, build your dog’s confidence and resilience and help them see you as someone they feel safe, focused and happy to be engaged with.
Paul Essex - Follow My Lead
www.my-lead.co.uk Tel: 07831 562009
Accredited Advanced Behaviour Trainer
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