11/08/2026
I am grateful for the help I didn’t get. ❤️
Looking back, some of the biggest lessons I’ve learned came from the moments when nobody stepped in to tell me what to do, nobody offered to make things easier, and nobody came along to show me the way.
There were plenty of times I wished someone would have. Times I could have used a little guidance, a helping hand, or someone to tell me I was making the right decision.
But looking back, I’m not sure I would have learned to figure things out for myself if someone had always stepped in.
Sometimes, not having someone to fall back on forces you to become someone you can rely on.
And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that one of the most valuable skills you can have in life is the ability to make a decision and ACT on it.
You can spend years waiting for the perfect opportunity, the right timing, enough money, someone else’s approval, or someone to tell you what to do.
Or you can take a chance, make a move, and figure it out along the way.
We’ve taken some pretty big risks. We’ve made decisions that probably looked crazy to some people. We’ve jumped into things without having every single detail figured out.
But for the most part? Those risks have brought us some pretty bountiful rewards.
This new farm, these animals, the opportunities we’ve created, and the life we’re building are all reminders of that.
Not everything has been easy, and we’re certainly not at the finish line. But I wouldn’t trade the lessons, the hard days, or the experience of figuring it out ourselves.
Sometimes the help you don’t get is what teaches you that you were capable of doing it all along. ❤️
Don’t wait for someone to come show you the way. Sometimes you just have to be the person who figures it out.
**I WILL ADD we have had help with some things from friends and family - I’m not here saying we never had help, we just are bad at asking for help most of the time. 🤣