10/28/2025
Diego and Ruckus have their separate altars already, but today is Dia de los Mu***os for pets (October 27) and my incredible friend Amber brought everything we would need for a traditional ofrenda (and as you can see, there have been many additions to Diego's altar, I'm grateful for everyone). Such a beautiful, personal gift from someone who knows me so well. Today Dan and I set it up, spent time with Mei Mei (our chow chow foster from many years ago who died tragically), Ruckus, and Diego, talking to them and sharing stories about them. We welcomed their spirits back if they wanted to visit. Diego, Ruckus, and Mei Mei (we have half her ashes, her lovely adoptive family care for her other half) are together on the ofrenda and I believe together on the other side. Dia de los Mu***os is meant to be a celebration and way to remember loved ones who have crossed over and help guide their souls back, and I find such joy, peace, and happiness at the ofrenda. These dogs are still so well loved, will always be remembered, will always be talked about and honored. They brought joy, love, silliness, and happiness to our lives. Their spirits will surround and guide me. I also remembered and honored many, many souls who I knew and loved from friends' pets to beloved pets I worked with who have crossed over. What a beautiful tradition and time of year. I would love to see your ofrenda if you have one!