10/30/2026
He knows sit. He’s just being stubborn.”
I hear this almost every week. And almost every time, the dog isn’t being stubborn. He’s confused.
Maybe he learned sit in the kitchen, but never at the park. Maybe “sit” has meant sit, sit down, and sit sit SIT, depending on the day. Maybe he’s too distracted to even hear you.
None of that is defiance. It’s a dog who hasn’t been shown what you want in that moment yet.
So the next time you want to call him stubborn, ask yourself: Have I actually taught him this, here?
Save this for the next time you’re frustrated, and send it to someone who swears their dog is just stubborn 🐾