06/18/2026
Iâm always amazed at the disconnect between what owners perceive to be happening in a high quality dog training experience, and whatâs really happening.
Yes, great trainers are going to give you the tools, obedience, and âdog trainerâ insights to enable you to best communicate, cohabitate, and enjoy life with your dog.
But whatâs really happening more often than not, is that owners are being taughtâoften without any overt fanfareâhow to become healthy, balanced, leaders.
In our current cultural climate, true discipline, consequences, and accountabilityâaka healthy leadershipâhave been either marginalized or directly demonized. And all that âtoxicâ stuff has been replaced with an obsessive fixation (and pedestalization) of overtly soft, non-confrontational, toxic nurturing.
As is standard human operating procedure, once we decide to adjust course due to past missteps, we donât adjust, we completely obliterate the pastâand along with it, all of the actual value/utility that one, if one was discerning, could find and apply from the past and derive great benefit from.
Which is a long winded way to say that much of reality-based, effective, high-quality dog training is far less about the actual surface level dog training that is the obvious stuff most see and expect.
Itâs actually about guiding the unsuspecting owner, whoâs been derailed from their common sense, their ability to trust their instincts and observations, and most critically their strengthâback to a healthy balance point between nurture and discipline.