10/25/2026
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Alright... Let's have some fun! 🐶 So starts our breed training education! Our next request was the:
❤️ Cavalier King Charles Spaniel! ❤️
What were they bred for?
These little dogs were bred primarily for companionship! Their ancestors were spaniels, but Cavaliers were selectively developed to be loving lap dogs and companions to people. They were meant to be close to their humans, which means they tend to REALLY love being around people!
However, don't let that sweet little face fool you! They're still spaniels, which means they can have some hunting instincts hiding underneath all that fluff. Problem behaviors you may see thanks to their genetics are:
Separation-related distress. These dogs were bred to be companions, so being left alone for long periods can be difficult for some of them. They may bark, whine, chew things, or struggle to settle when their people leave. This isn't them being dramatic or spiteful! They're having a hard time coping.
Following you EVERYWHERE. Bathroom? They're coming. Kitchen? They're coming. Trying to have five minutes to yourself? GOOD LUCK. 😂 Their love of human companionship can turn into difficulty being independent if we never teach them how to relax on their own.
Jumping on people. Cavaliers LOVE people, and some of them express that excitement by launching themselves at your knees or trying to climb into every lap they see. Their enthusiasm is adorable, but we still need to teach them how to greet people politely!
Difficulty with recall. Remember those spaniel ancestors? Smells, birds, squirrels, and interesting things in the grass can be VERY distracting. Even a dog who adores you may find that a particularly interesting smell is worth investigating!
Barking for attention. Some Cavaliers learn that barking gets their humans to look at them, talk to them, or play with them. If that works often enough, guess what they're going to keep doing?
Difficulty settling without help. Some are so accustomed to being the center of attention that they struggle to entertain themselves or relax when nothing exciting is happening. Learning how to settle is a LIFE SKILL, not something dogs automatically know how to do!
Training tips:
❤️ Teach independence BEFORE you need it! Practice short, positive periods of alone time while you're still home. Give them a cozy resting spot, a safe food toy, or a chew they enjoy. Gradually build duration so being alone becomes a normal, predictable part of life.
❤️ Reward four paws on the floor! When greeting people, teach them that keeping their feet down makes attention happen. You don't need to scold them for being excited. Show them what WORKS instead!
❤️ Play hide-and-seek! Have someone hold your dog while you hide nearby, then call them to find you. Reward them when they arrive! This builds recall, engagement, and confidence while playing into their love of their people.
❤️ Let them USE that nose! Scatter kibble in the grass, use snuffle mats, hide treats around a room, or try beginner scent-work games. You don't need a hunting dog to enjoy sniffing games!
❤️ Teach a relaxation routine. Reward them for choosing to lie down, resting on a mat, or quietly watching the world. We want them to learn that calm behavior gets good things, too!
❤️ Practice being alone without making it scary. If your Cavalier panics when separated from you, don't just leave them to cry it out. Start with easier separations and build gradually. Severe separation distress may require a qualified professional and veterinary support.
And one more VERY important thing: don't mistake affection for a lack of independence! We can love our dogs, cuddle them, and let them be our little shadows while ALSO teaching them that they can feel safe and comfortable without us right beside them every second.
Don't try to change your dog's natural instincts. Embrace them and use them to improve your connection with your dogs!
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