08/17/2026
🚨Your Tack Set Doesn’t Make You a Horseman
Maybe this is a conversation the horse industry needs to have. 👀
Because sometimes I wonder if, in our effort to make everything better, faster, newer and more advanced, we’re quietly losing some of the things that made good horsemen in the first place.
I remember when we respected our trainers.
We idolized them.
We listened. We asked questions. We watched them work. We didn’t assume we knew more because we saw a 30-second video online.
And when we weren’t riding?
We practiced.
Not by riding our horses into the ground.
We practiced wrapping polos on our friends’ legs until we could do it correctly.
We practiced setting fences and pole lines by walking them out, making our best estimate, then pulling out a tape measure to see how close we actually were.
We practiced by oiling and cleaning our tack religiously — after every ride, and sometimes even on days we never rode.
We practiced by grooming.
Not the five-minute brush where the saddle goes.
I mean standing there for 90 minutes, picking through manes, cleaning feet, massaging muscles, noticing every little change in the horse underneath our hands.
We hung out at the local feed store and asked questions.
We learned from the people behind the feed mill.
We went to the tack store and actually listened while someone explained the mechanics of different bits, bridles, saddles and training equipment.
We learned the why.
Not just the what.
And I think that’s something we’re missing.
Today, there is SO much information available to young equestrians.
But access to information isn’t the same thing as understanding.
We can watch a video about a training aid, but do we understand how it works?
Do we understand the horse’s musculoskeletal system?
The nervous system? Digestive system? Respiratory system?
Do we understand biomechanics?
Equine psychology?
Do we know how to recognize when a horse is uncomfortable, confused, afraid, sore, poorly conditioned or simply hasn’t been taught something?
Do we ask why before deciding what the problem is?
Or do we immediately reach for whatever diagnosis, gadget or training technique is trending this week?
And somewhere along the way, we’ve also become a little too comfortable with disrespect.
We recently heard a story about a professional trainer and rated judge holding a clinic where a teenage attendee spoke to her incredibly disrespectfully, even cursing directly at her. The parents saw it happen and said nothing.
That would’ve been unthinkable to a lot of us growing up.
We respected our trainers.
Not because they were always right.
But because we understood that they had spent decades learning something we hadn’t.
We should absolutely continue advancing.
We have better equine science, veterinary knowledge, nutrition, biomechanics and training research than ever before.
Let’s use it.
But let’s not let “progress” come at the expense of old-school horsemanship.
Let’s not lose the art of standing in a barn for hours just because you love being there.
Let’s not lose the kid who spends Saturday afternoon cleaning tack instead of scrolling.
Let’s not lose the curiosity to ask questions.
Let’s not lose the humility to listen.
Let’s not lose the ability to simply know our horses.
Because none of us are here without the horse.
Not the trainer.
Not the judge.
Not the competitor.
Not the breeder.
Not the tack company.
Not the influencer.
The horse comes first. Always. 🐴
And maybe the best thing we can give the next generation isn’t another lesson on how to win a ribbon.
Maybe it’s the kind of education and foundation that teaches them how to be a horseman long before they ever become a rider.
Because some things from “the way it used to be” are worth bringing back. 🧡💙
