06/17/2025
One of the best duct tape-responses that I arm pet guardians with as they’re moving through anticipatory grief & decision-making about hospice care, end-of-life, euthanasia & aftercare & they’re hearing unhelpful opinions from colleagues & loved ones is this:
“I imagine you’re relieved that you don’t need to make these decisions.”
It works well! Feel free to use it for this or any similar life situation where those around you are behaving in a way that is less than supportive or kind.