07/20/2026
We used to say that dogs crave rules and structure.
While rules and structure are necessary, what they really crave is clarity, and biological fulfillment.
Clarity is key. Clarity in whatâs expected, clarity in what our words mean, clarity in consequences, both positive and negative. Dogs are speaking a different language, and without clarity, itâs all just noise, confusion, and stress.
Dogs also donât need more obedienceâŚthey need biological fulfillment. Your Husky wonât stop escaping? Your Malinois wonât stop biting? Your (insert terrier) wonât stop going after small animals? Your (insert hound) wonât come back when his nose is on the ground? Your (insert shepherd) wonât stop nipping people?
This isnât because they need more commands, itâs because their biology is telling them to and they donât have a constructive outlet for it so they find one for themselves. Most of these things can be supplemented with a game. A game of chase, a game of tag, a game of tug, a game of find itâŚ
You arenât just absentmindedly playing with your dog, and throwing a ball while youâre scrolling social media. Youâre in a real gameâŚa game with rules, penalties, and an objective. A game you are both invested in.
When you play the game, you build a relationship and engagement. You teach about rules, and winning and penalties. You teach self control. You teach them that you are more fun and invested than any other thing out there. You give them an outlet for their genetics and drive.
So if your dog seems to keep getting himself into trouble. And doesnât listen. And you seem to disappear once something more interesting comes along.
Start by putting down your phone. Stop yelling. Start playing.
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Whatâs your dogâs favorite game?
