11/03/2026
The problem with a red mare..
The problem with a red mare has nothing to do with the mare at all. Rather the implication of the term ‘she’s a red mare’.
Jimmy here has reminded us this week just how horrible these stereotypes can be for some horses. She’s a lucky red mare to have landed in a home that doesn’t believe in labeling horses like that.
When Jimmy came to use fresh of the track she was very sweet, doe eyed and curious. But when trying to work with her at all she was downright witchy. Didn’t like grooming, tacking up or really anything that applied pressure. I didn’t know her at all so I spent some time trying to figure out what she was saying. I didn’t know if it was ulcers, or soreness from her time at the track or what. But I didn’t believe that mare who looked at me all wide eyed and waltzed onto the trailer without so much as a second thought was truly nasty like this. What in her 3 years of life could make a sweet mare so nasty about being touched.
Lyme Disease… eventually we tested her for Lyme and her results were quite literally off the charts. She was dealing with extreme muscle pain and who knows what else because of it. No wonder she didn’t want to be touched. Within a week of antibiotics she was like a completely different horse. By the end of treatment she was a calm happy baby who was pleasant to bring along. Sweet and cuddly, loving scratches all over her body (wow is she an itchy girls, she loves scratches more than anything).
We had a petty good stretch after that with no complications from her Lyme and all her bloodwork looked great. Until this fall when I started to notice signs of that mare returning. It started small. Just a little extra flinching when grooming, a little less excited about scratches. Right away I was worried, but I can’t help thinking how different it could be for her if someone just said “oh she’s a red mare, tell her to get over it”. Then she moved to getting more upset about girthing and I really thought we need to pull bloodwork again cause this isn’t her. She was mostly fine under saddle, though her hind end stiffness was noticeably worse. And sure enough when we pulled blood, the results came back rather high.
I expect she will be back to herself pretty quickly here, but we’ll be doing some extra ‘self care’, if you will, for a little while. Some reminder sessions tacking up, so that she can relearn that the saddle does not mean pain. And reminding everyone that “she’s a red mare” is just a sh*tty excuse.
Jimmy will always have a risk of Lyme flare ups since she had is so severely the first time. It’s something we test her for 2x a year because of this. And I don’t know why it flared up now, who knows when or if it will again. But I do know I have an extremely sweet mare on my hands. She loves attention, scratches and spending time with her people. She is silly and playful while also being sensitive and delicate. She is not mean or moody or grumpy. I know this, so when something changes in her, it is my job to listen.