28/08/2025
Something to consider is the idea of forming a partnership with your horse. This can be kind controversial these days and the word partnership is often thrown around in the horse world. What is a partnership anyway? In my opinion it is a very relative thing in terms of how you view that word and what it means to you personally, I think partnerships are different for everyone! Bit like everyone has their own idea of what a good marriage or relationship might look and feel like I guess.
I personally like to think of it like this:
First off you both have responsibilities, YOU need to learn to think more like a horse and act less like a predator. What does this mean exactly? It can be as simple as how we reach out to touch our horse. Think offering the back of your hand in a similar shape as the horses nose with your hand palm down and fingernails curved towards the ground like your holding the top of a rail. It’s less claw like and less predatory. Similarly try stroking your horse instead of patting or slapping it. They tend to lick and nibble on each other as a form of mutual grooming so let’s try to simulate that with them.
Their responsibility of acting less like a prey animal and more like a partner really comes down to us helping them learn that they don’t necessarily have to feel like their life is in danger. You see a horse has a priority of needs:
1. Safety
2. Comfort
3. Play=who’s who in the herd
4. Food
A good example of this is trailer loading. If the horse doesn’t feel safe in or around the trailer, he’s not going to feel comfortable and no amount of food will get them on
VS
The horse who feels safe enough but just isn’t that comfortable in the trailer yet will more than likely be persuaded with a little food and reluctantly load
VS
The horse who’s been given the opportunity to learn that the trailer is absolutely no threat to their safety, therefore they feel safe, act like a partner and will willingly self load.
Just a little food for thought🤔