09/12/2025
There are times when allowing dogs agency, time to evaluate and make choices without our intervention is the right thing to do and the shortest route to learning. No coaxing or attempts to encourage. Just quiet observation. Doing nothing *is* doing something. I love this post.
Let them look !
They need to observe and see what is around them if they should learn to cope.
- looking without being disturbed by us
- time to digest and learn
- first at safe distance
That is how they learn about their environment.
Making them look another way might be more convenient for ourselves, but the dog does not learn anything., except following demands, which gives them no life skills.
So give them time to look and make their choices. They are so much better at being dogs. - polite, social and conflict solving - than we can teach them to be.
That is why my favourite thing on earth is observing dogs. It makes me happy