08/25/2026
We truly have the BEST Team here at PGF. ❤️🐴
Our parents are stepping back and teaching these kids one of the most important lessons — you have to work to play. Nothing is just handed to them. They learn that caring for their horses, helping around the barn, putting in the late nights and showing up for the early mornings are all part of earning those moments in the arena.
Our Team kids cheer each other on, celebrate each other’s accomplishments and pick each other up when a run doesn’t go as planned. The parents and grandparents are standing on the sidelines smiling ear to ear, no matter what the clock says or where they place.
Because at the end of the day, if the horse and rider come out of that arena safe, that’s the biggest WIN of all. ❤️
These kids take so much pride in their horses. They share the duties, help one another, put in the work and are learning that being part of a Team means so much more than winning a ribbon, cheque or buckle.
We are beyond blessed with the riders, horses, parents and grandparents who make up TEAM PGF. 🐴❤️
Work hard. Stay humble. Cheer louder for your teammates. Take care of your horse. And never forget why you started.
Youth competition starts going sideways when it becomes more about the parent than the kid competing.
Parents should absolutely be invested. Spend the money, haul the miles, help them prepare, hold them accountable and give them opportunities.
But the kids need some skin in the game too.
If they’re old enough to compete, they’re old enough to have age-appropriate responsibility for the horse that gets them there. Feeding, watering, cleaning stalls, filling hay nets, grooming, packing their stuff, helping load and unload — whatever fits their age and ability.
Parents doing absolutely everything while the kid shows up to ride misses a huge part of what horses and competition are supposed to teach.
And once we get to the show, the focal point should still be the kids and the horses.
Their run. Their nerves. Their goals. Their disappointment. Their excitement. Their lessons to learn.
A bad run shouldn’t turn into a parent being visibly angry, embarrassed or storming off because the outcome wasn’t what they wanted. A good run shouldn’t become more about what the parent did to make it happen than what the kid and horse accomplished.
Sometimes the most important job a parent has is knowing when to help — and when to step back.
Let them work for it. Let them take care of their horse. Let them learn how to win without becoming entitled to it. Let them learn how to lose without falling apart. Let them make mistakes, process them and come back better.
Because the ribbons and checks are great, but raising capable, responsible horsemen and women should be the bigger goal.
Where do you think the line is between supporting a young competitor and doing too much for them?