02/11/2026
Puppy socialisation isn’t what most people think… and getting it wrong is why so many behaviour issues show up later 👀🐾
Socialisation is not letting your puppy meet every dog, person and child.
It’s not chaotic playdates.
And it’s definitely not taking your puppy to the dog park or dog beach “to socialise them”.
👉 Real socialisation is calm, intentional exposure to the world so your puppy feels relaxed, confident and unbothered around people, dogs, places and sounds.
That means learning to observe without engaging.
Think:
• watching dogs from a distance without saying hi
• hearing and seeing traffic, trolleys, bikes, kids, trucks, tools
• seeing people of all shapes, sizes and movement styles
• new environments with no pressure to interact
All while your puppy stays under threshold, neutral and calm.
This matters most during the critical socialisation period: 8–16 weeks old 🧠✨
This is when their brain starts to decide what’s “normal”, what’s “exciting”, and what’s “too much”.
Here’s the part people don’t talk about enough 👇
You can over-socialise a puppy.
When I brought Orion home, he came to daycare with me every day.
He saw and heard everything — dogs, people, noise, movement.
What he didn’t practise enough?
👉 not saying hi to dogs and people
👉 being neutral around them
👉 learning that dogs don’t always mean access or excitement
That’s something we’ve spent years refining.
With Vega, I’m being far more intentional.
He’s still experiencing the world — but the focus now is:
• calm observation over interaction
• trips to Bunnings, the foreshore, cafes to watch the world
• quality over quantity
• dogs and people existing without engagement
Because confidence isn’t built through excitement.
It’s built through calm repetition and neutrality.
Calm exposure now = confident, resilient dog later 🤍
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