06/09/2026
𝐅𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐍𝐃𝐒 𝐅𝐈𝐑𝐒𝐓 𝐁𝐄𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐒❤️
I love the idea of being intentional and upfront with someone: "I would like to date you and later marry you."
But I think that idea is backfiring a lot, because you are being intentional with someone who can't be your best friend, all you have is covenant with no friendship.
You don't know how to enjoy Life and be friends. You are married to a prison mate.
It's exhausting to be married to someone who you are just married to.
Dear Lord! A friend, a best friend first before she is a marriage partner.
Because if I don't like you as a friend, it's not that deep, even if we want to get married.
I remember someone asking me "Am I boring you," I wish I could have said what was in my heart — "Yesssss! I'm in fact I want to go home my mother is calling me" 😂😂😂 Ok some people! You guys are being unfair to the human race.
"But Coach, they will friend-zone you." You people are just childish, that's why am not talking to you, at your age you are just friend-zoning people?
Sidenote: but I know this conversation is foreign to kwa Zambia people, because you people have no class, you just marry as long as your organs agree and wonder why you are suffering in so-called marriages.