01/11/2026
I AM TIRED, TOO. AND I NEED YOUR HELP. 💔🐾
This is a difficult post to write, because I am used to asking for help for the animals. Today, I also need to speak for the person caring for them.
Me.
I love what I do. I believe in PurrPaws For Life and in giving animals a chance at a safe, loved life. But loving this work does not mean I never get exhausted, frustrated or overwhelmed.
I am a manager, a director, a mother and a wife. Somewhere among those responsibilities, there is also Lindie—a person with feelings, limits and a heart that gets hurt.
And some days, the responsibility feels unbearably lonely.
We reach out to help the community with their pets because those animals matter too. I understand that families struggle financially and that finding help can be difficult.
But there are times when an animal has been ill for days, when people have tried medicating it themselves, and I am only called to assist on the third day—when the situation has become desperate.
Then I am expected to be their pet’s emergency service. To arrange transport, find veterinary help, make a plan for payment and somehow make everything right.
And when help comes too late, who gets blamed?
Even when I have done everything I possibly could, I am left feeling as though I failed them. I carry that animal’s suffering and wonder what might have happened if help had been sought sooner.
Please understand: I am human. I am not a miracle worker. Neither are our vets.
Our vets have been incredibly supportive and helpful. They give their time, skill and care to the animals we bring through their doors. But even with that dedication, they cannot guarantee that every life can be saved or undo everything that happened before an animal reached them.
Please seek veterinary advice early when your animal is unwell. Be honest about how long they have been sick and anything you have already given them. That information matters.
We stretch our veterinary accounts to the limit to help both community pets and shelter animals. Every consultation, treatment and emergency adds to a bill that still needs to be paid.
We cannot keep carrying these costs without support.
Behind every appeal is an animal needing help—and people trying desperately to make that help possible.
Meanwhile, the shelter’s daily responsibilities continue. The animals need food, clean spaces, treatment, comfort and patience. There are repairs, maintenance, administration, fundraising, messages and decisions. Family life carries on alongside all of it.
I am tired of feeling that I must hold everything together and then find the energy to ask, explain and plead for help too.
Why must it so often reach the point of begging? Why can someone not notice and say, “I can see how much you are carrying. Here is what I can do”?
Sometimes my availability feels expected, while my exhaustion goes unnoticed. When I cannot attend something, answer immediately or fit into someone else’s plans, please give me some understanding.
I would love a little time to stop and smell the flowers. To rest knowing that someone dependable has taken responsibility for a task and will see it through.
To my friends, my family and everyone who believes in this work: please help me carry it.
An offer can be simple:
🐾 “I can help at the shelter for two hours this week.”
🐾 “I can do that collection or help with transport.”
🐾 “Let me take responsibility for an admin task.”
🐾 “What repairs or maintenance can we assist with?”
🐾 “Tell me what I need to learn so I can give you a proper break.”
🐾 “I can donate towards the food or veterinary account.”
Please offer something you can realistically do, and follow through. Reliable help gives me room to breathe and helps us continue caring for the animals who depend on us.
And sometimes, please ask how I am doing—with time to listen to the honest answer.
To our vets and everyone already helping: thank you. I see your kindness, and I am deeply grateful. We need more people beside us so that the responsibility does not keep falling on the same shoulders.
This time of year is especially difficult, and I am reaching out honestly:
We desperately need your support, your prayers and your donations. 🙏🏻
If you can give, any amount will help us meet the costs of caring for these animals.
Donate to PurrPaws For Life
Capitec Business Bank
Vanderbijlpark
Branch code: 450105
Cheque account: 1050748298
Or support our veterinary account in Meyerton:
Kliprivier Veterinary Clinic
ABSA Bank
Branch code: 334137
Account: 510152484
Reference: Purrpaws
Or our veterinary account in Deneysville:
Wilgepoort Veedienste Deneysville
FNB
Account: 63075367582
Reference: 4996
If you cannot donate, please share this appeal or offer practical help.
I can love this work with my whole heart and still need relief from its demands. Please don’t assume that because I keep going, I am coping comfortably—or that because I usually find a way, I should always have to find it alone.
I care deeply about these animals. I need to feel cared for, too.
With an honest, tired heart,
Lindie
PurrPaws For Life 🐾
We are the Voice for the Voiceless.