11/05/2026
Your dog has the crate. The Kong. The calming playlist.
And still cries, paces, or scratches at the door the minute you leave.
That doesn't mean you did anything wrong. Separation anxiety is not a boredom problem. It's an emotional problem. And no single tool can change how a dog feels when you walk out the door.
Here's how I explain it to my clients: put your ice cream in the refrigerator and your lettuce in the freezer. Both appliances work perfectly. Use them for the wrong job, and you ruin the very things you were trying to protect.
Dog training tools work the same way. A Kong can help a relaxed dog. For an anxious dog, it can become the signal that you're about to leave.
In my new blog post, I cover:
✔️ The signs of separation anxiety, and how to tell it apart from boredom
✔️ The 30-minute video trick that shows you what's really happening while you're gone
✔️ Why so many adopted dogs struggle with being alone
✔️ When a crate or a Kong can make things worse
✔️ What actually helps: building comfortable independence, one small step at a time
✔️ Answers to the 10 questions I get asked most
It's a marathon, not a hundred-yard dash. But with Patience, Compassion, and Guidance, dogs do get better.
📖 Read the full article on my website, theacdt.com, under Blog: "Dog Separation Anxiety: What Helps, What Doesn't, and Why Tools Can Backfire"
Avi Kornblum | Affordable Compassionate Dog Training
South Florida's Adopted Dog Specialist | Broward & Palm Beach County
📞 (954) 900-9013