23/09/2026
"๐ฌ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐
๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐
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A friend reminded me of this when I was doubting my journey. It wasn't a big conversation, just a sentence. She was right.
Operation Shepherd was a dream in a group chat until Westmac came along with Mr Multi. Getting to him meant driving over 1,000 miles twice in a month. I'd never driven longer than 3 hours - but that's how Moose was arriving.
I thought Diesel would only ever walk on a halti. My second trainer piled on more equipment - canny collar, flat collar, harness. It took someone who actually broke down his behaviour to tell me to take it all off and teach him instead.
To learn more, I had to leave the system that taught me everything I knew. It gave me everything I wanted with Diesel, but left giant questions unanswered for Aspen - probably the most genetically nervy dog I've ever had. Her answers only came from trusting myself and exploring further.
The flashy obedience I wanted from Aspen meant building real confidence first by consistently showing her she could do something, even when it scared her.
To keep growing as a trainer, I had to step out of my teachers' shadows - not because I wasn't grateful, but to explore further. So here I am, running a business I never intended to run.
Every one of those valuable lessons came from doing the uncomfortable thing first.
We all have to do uncomfortable things, in dog training and life. But that's where the growth happens ๐ฒ