09/03/2026
If your puppy growls when you pick them up… it might not be what you think.
This is something I see all the time with new puppies, especially in families with kids.
Most puppies don’t like being picked up at first. And honestly, that makes sense.
Imagine someone twice your size suddenly reaching down, grabbing you, and lifting you off the ground before you even understand what’s happening.
From a puppy’s perspective, that can feel pretty scary.
So if your puppy growls when you pick them up, it doesn’t mean they’re “bad” or “dominant.” It usually just means one thing.
That was too fast.
The growl can feel scary, especially when kids are nearby.
But, from the puppy’s perspective, the whole thing happened before they even understood what was going on.
The good news? This is an easy skill to teach, not only to the puppy, but to the whole family.
Teaching “puppy pick-up etiquette” can prevent the growl from becoming something more serious.
When I pick Angel up, I slow everything way down so he can relax and process that I am about to pick him up.
First, I gently place my hands on his chest between his front legs. Then I pause for a moment so he can process the touch.
Next, I shift a tiny bit of weight into my hands so he can feel that something is about to happen. Only then do I slowly lift him, supporting his back legs so his body feels secure. Sometimes we don’t even pick him up at all.
We just practice the feeling of pressure and release. I barely lift his front paws off the ground and then place them right back down.
That’s how puppies learn to trust being handled.
What people often mistake:
Growling at this stage isn’t bad.
It’s communication.
Your puppy is saying:
“I didn’t like that.”
That’s helpful information.
If we ignore it, the growl can turn into something more serious.
A warning growl tells us we need to slow down, practice more, and give them time to build trust. Because trust isn’t automatic for puppies. It’s something we build slowly.�With patience. With practice.
Honestly, I think dogs of all ages can benefit from this little trust-building exercise.
How does your dog respond when you try to pick them up? Have they ever growled?