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Tiff Score - Free To Be Dog Behavior We help big-feelings dogs and their people thrive with fun, science-backed training rooted in emotional wellness, adventure, and real-life joy.

Led by an applied animal behaviorist with a master’s degree—because your dog deserves both freedom and support.

16/10/2026

💜 LET'S TURN MOORE CO. PURPLE! 💜

Next Thursday, October 22, we’re celebrating Wear Purple Day for Domestic Violence Awareness Month—and we want YOU to join us!

We’ll be stopping by local businesses today to drop off a flyer and invite their teams to wear purple next Thursday. Then, we’ll be back to snap a photo and show off our community standing together against domestic violence. 💜

📸 Wear purple. Take a stand. Show your support.
Tag so we can celebrate with you!

06/10/2026

More than 90% of animal shelter staff are experiencing secondary traumatic stress at high levels.

Let's talk about what that actually means ⬇️

Secondary traumatic stress (STS) is the emotional and physiological response that comes from being consistently exposed to the trauma of others. In shelter work, that's the fear, grief, and suffering of the animals you're caring for, day after day, shift after shift.

It doesn't require you to be the one making the hard decisions. It doesn't require a "big" traumatic event. It builds slowly, from proximity. From sitting with a scared dog. From watching a hoarding case come in. From being the person a struggling animal trusts, when everything about their story is heavy.

And the impact is real. STS can look like:

🐾 Trouble sleeping, or sleeping but not feeling rested
🐾 Intrusive thoughts about specific animals long after your shift ends
🐾 Emotional numbness, or sudden waves of grief you can't place
🐾 Irritability, cynicism, or feeling detached from the work you used to love
🐾 Physical symptoms: headaches, stomach issues, tension you can't shake
🐾 Difficulty concentrating or making decisions you used to make easily

If any of that sounds familiar, you are not weak. You are not "bad at this." You are responding exactly the way a human nervous system responds to sustained exposure to another being's suffering.

The first step is language. Naming what's happening. The second is not carrying it alone.

Come find your people inside my free Facebook community for shelter leaders, staff and volunteers. It's where shelter folks talk about this openly, share what's helping, and remind each other that this work is hard AND worth it 💜

👉 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18r3VuCtEv/

Stat Source: Faunalytics, "Compassion Under Pressure: A Study of U.S. Animal Shelter Staff Well-Being"

02/10/2026
Just a couple of boys practicing for outdoor adventure trips! 🤭
27/08/2026

Just a couple of boys practicing for outdoor adventure trips! 🤭

We are working with sweet Laika and her family, which includes her 2 Corgi brothers to improve harmony during historical...
22/05/2026

We are working with sweet Laika and her family, which includes her 2 Corgi brothers to improve harmony during historically arousing contexts such as doorway thersholds and evening relaxation time as a family.

To start, all 3 dogs are learning to wait at open doors, stay, and a “leave it” cue. Creating harmonious multi-dog households requires very reliable and strong foundation skills.

These kiddos are crushing it & having a ton of fun in the process!!

I mean, come on. It doesn’t get any better!
15/04/2026

I mean, come on. It doesn’t get any better!

09/04/2026

Who needs a puppy named after a pizza chain? 🥰❤️

08/04/2026

If a stranger walked up and asked to touch your child, what would you do? Would you smile and say sure, my daughter is friendly! Go ahead and pet her hair!

Uh, no. I would momma bear the crap out of that situation. No way, a stranger is touching my kid.

Why is it different for dogs?

From a veterinary behavior standpoint, an unfamiliar person reaching toward a dog is not a neutral interaction. It is a social and physical intrusion that the dog must interpret in real time.

Some might like it.

Many dogs will tolerate it.

Many will try to avoid it.

Others—especially those with fear, anxiety, pain, or a history of threat—may escalate.

Aggression is not unpredictable. It is a distance-increasing behavior that occurs when a dog perceives a loss of safety and control.

When we assume access—without consent—we remove choice.

When we remove choice, we increase stress.

And when stress rises, risk follows.

This is why “friendly” is not a sufficient assessment.

This is why bites often occur during routine interactions.

This is why prevention starts before contact is made.

The standard should be simple:

Dogs just like kids are not public property. No one has the right to pet your dog no matter how much they profess that dogs love them.

Not because dogs are dangerous—

but because they are sentient beings with thresholds, histories, and limits.

Respecting that boundary protects the dog, the handler, and the public.

And that is good behavioral medicine.

I’m not sure for how long we will be back on social media (probably not too long), but I wanted to come back so we could...
23/03/2026

I’m not sure for how long we will be back on social media (probably not too long), but I wanted to come back so we could share some news!

Our website has been revamped and features a FREE resources page! This has been a long standing goal of mine and I am ecstatic it’s finally come to fruition.

Head over to https://freetobedog.org/resources to snag some free resources — including a dog friendly moore county guide!

Virtual consulting with an ACAAB dog behaviorist for referral-level, complex, and multi-factor dog behavior cases.

Happy New Year, everyone!! Wishing the most beautiful things for you and your dogs in 2026!! ✨We are taking an extended ...
01/01/2026

Happy New Year, everyone!! Wishing the most beautiful things for you and your dogs in 2026!! ✨

We are taking an extended break from all social media - beginning later today but are still here running operations in full swing!

Stay connected via our email newsletter which you can sign up for on our website at www.freetobedog.org

We’ve got big goals and plans for this year and will be funneling the extra energy from releasing social media into those projects. First up will be a professionally designed and fully functional website including EVERYTHING you need to know about our services, pricing, faqs, etc PLUS an entire page dedicated to free downloadable resources and another to an educational blog!

Launch will happen, hopefully, in February.

Additionally, we will be sending monthly email newsletters and printing quarterly newsletters to distribute around Moore County, NC.

Feel free to keep in touch or reach out, anytime, via email to [email protected]

Happy training and adventuring!

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