07/30/2026
I guess this is storytelling week. Here is a story from when I was running an Equine Therapy in a locked facility for boys. Back then I went to regional and national conferences regarding this work. I met a lot of people around the country in my travels. At these meetings we'd hang out and talk horses over beers in the evening. My favorite stories are about my impulsive horse purchases that broke my bones and threw me into trees, so I told those stories.
As I planned my travel, I'd contact people that I met doing this work to tell them I would be traveling through their area. One time a couple invited me to stay over at their farm. I didn't know them well and I appreciate the offer.
I arrived at night. The next day after breakfast they told me we could ride to a forest fire over the hill from their farm that nearly had caused them to evacuate, but they were spared. They asked if I'd like to go for a ride and see it. I said sure. They gave me one of their horses to ride and off we went over the hill.
The fire had happened over a year before, but you could still smell a faint odor of charred wood and smoldering ground. At one point the wife asked me how I liked the horse. I said fine, he's a good horse. She questioned me further about any issues I might have observed and I said the horse was a bit sticky to the left in his turns.
Then she told me, to my great surprise, that I was the first rider who had not been bucked to the ground by him. I thought to myself, wow who does this, puts a guest on a horse like that without telling them? I mean these were colleagues in equine mental health work just like me.
The husband laughed and said to her, I told you so. Then he explained that during our late night storytelling sessions at a conference, she thought I was full of s**t with my crazy horse training stories. I think she wanted to embarrass me with this horse. Apparently, he believed my stories and had bet that I'd be fine.
Their bet on the outcome of my ride was pretty sick. I told this story to my equine therapy program's Clinical Director when I returned home. He said that many people take psychology courses and get into mental health programs like equine therapy to learn about their own undiagnosed mental health issues that they unconsciously feel. Good to know. I never contacted those people again.