05/19/2025
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âForce-Free Doesnât Work.â Do You Believe ThatâOr Just Say It?
Every now and then I pause and wonder:
Do people genuinely believe force-free training doesnât workâlike, deep down?
Or is it a defense mechanism? A rehearsed response? A way to avoid confronting the side effects of punishment?
Because I can be honest:
Yes, punishment can suppress behavior. It often gets fast results.
But I donât like what it does alongside those resultsâ
The fallout. The shutdown. The fear. The loss of trust.
So I donât pretend it doesnât work. I just question what it means to âwork.â
Can we ask the same honesty in return?
Can those who preach balance admit that many âbadâ behaviors were coping strategies?
Can they acknowledge the difference between obedience and emotional wellness?
Can they say, âYes, itâs effectiveâbut we donât always talk about the cost?â
Can they acknowledge that suppression often failsâand not just because the trainer wasnât skilled enough, but because the dogâs needs werenât understood?
Take this argument I heard recently:
âCooperative care in zoo animals is proof you can pair aversives with reinforcers to make it okay.â
Thatâs not just wrong. Itâs revealing.
Because if you truly believe that cooperative care for wild animals is built on aversive control,
youâve misunderstood everything about how trust-based handling in zoological and marine environments works.
The whole point is that you canât use forceâso you have to use understanding.
You have to go slow. You have to build trust.
And when you do, you donât need the threat.
Thatâs not proof of punishment working.
Thatâs proof of whatâs possible without it.
So when someone says âforce-free doesnât work,â I want to know:
What were you looking for?
What did you try?
What didnât you understand?
Because if youâve only measured âsuccessâ by suppression, you might not be seeing the full picture.
And if you have seen it, and still pretend itâs not realâ
Then letâs call this what it is:
Not about truth.
Just about tribes.