Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

𝐐𝐔𝐈𝐙 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄!!!Intention vs. ImpactTake a moment and answer the question below — your response might surprise you.⏱️Want re...
12/10/2025

𝐐𝐔𝐈𝐙 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄!!!

Intention vs. Impact

Take a moment and answer the question below — your response might surprise you.

⏱️Want real-time tools to handle these
moments with clarity and confidence?

👇🏻Comment YES down below for the free webinar link!🔗

At Riding Far, we believe true harmony between horse and rider begins long before the first stride.It starts with clear,...
12/09/2025

At Riding Far, we believe true harmony between horse and rider begins long before the first stride.
It starts with clear, consistent communication, the kind your horse can trust, understand, and confidently respond to.

Every cue, every release, every moment of awareness shapes how your horse interprets your riding. When our intention matches our impact, the ride becomes lighter, clearer, and more connected. This is the heart of effective communication… and it’s the foundation of every successful partnership.

If you’re ready to deepen your connection and learn the communication tools we use every day at Riding Far, join us for our
Free webinar:

𝐄𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐚𝐫𝐧
📅 Monday, December 15 • 1 PM EST

❄️ The first event in the Riding Far Winter Webinar Series

👇🏻Comment “YES” down below for the link!

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12/08/2025

Part 4: Our Final Triple Crown Feature

To wrap up our series, we want to give a huge shout-out to Karen, Sandy, and the entire Triple Crown team. Thank you for supporting Riding Far and helping us give our horses the high-quality nutrition they deserve.

From our easy keepers to our hard workers, Triple Crown keeps every horse feeling and performing their best. We are truly grateful. 🐴💛🌾

12/07/2025

Part 3: Triple Crown Senior Gold
A barn favorite for a reason. Triple Crown Senior Gold is highly digestible, low in sugar, and packed with fiber — making it gentle on the gut while still helping our horses maintain weight, shine, and overall wellness.
It’s not just for seniors; it’s for any horse that needs a softer, safer fuel source. 🌾💛

Part 4 coming soon… our final feed breakdown!

12/07/2025

When a horse truly understands what we ask of them and what we ask is within the limits of their capability, teaching them new things can happen with ease.

The responsibility lands on me as the rider to make sure I am clear and to be aware of the horse’s feedback, so I am always making sure that they understand me as I intend to be.

🚨NO Casually Chaotic Conversation this week!!🚨Check back in on Monday December 8th for a special video!
12/07/2025

🚨NO Casually Chaotic Conversation this week!!🚨

Check back in on Monday December 8th for a special video!

Psych Saturday (on Sunday): Casting Light into the Dark Corners of Our Sport A story crossed my Facebook feed this morni...
12/07/2025

Psych Saturday (on Sunday): Casting Light into the Dark Corners of Our Sport

A story crossed my Facebook feed this morning from The Plaid Horse blog. It was a heartbreaking piece by Jamie Sindell about her daughter’s devastating experience with a show barn and the difficult choices she faced as a mother trying to protect her children from toxicity in the sport.

As a Sport Psychologist, I have worked with countless families, children, and teens who have lived through similar experiences. My heart breaks each time I hear that familiar story. The pride of being chosen as special, the warmth and joy of having one’s ability recognized, and the promise of opportunity often erode into confidence crushing coaching. The details change, yet the core is often the same; shaming, character attacks, pressure tactics, and guilt induction. Sometimes these behaviors appear in the disguise of motivation. Other times there is no disguise at all.

The universal reaction from people who genuinely love the sport is outrage, and rightfully so. There are calls for protections, stronger oversight from organizations such as USEF and SafeSport, and more rigorous instructor certifications. These legislative solutions matter, yet it is equally important to recognize that these painful stories are not tied to one discipline or corner of equestrian sport.

They are a human problem. They are rooted in cultural inertia and destructive beliefs that have been carried forward not only in equestrian sport but across athletics as a whole. In truth, they reach even farther. They show up in our politics, our businesses, our schools, and often in the intimate spaces of family life and parenting.

I have seen shadows of these toxic coaching and motivational strategies in nearly every part of our world. I have seen them even in the dark corners of institutions that aspire to be beacons of light in the world. At times I have felt them in my own heart. Like so many of us, I was raised in a world that celebrated these destructive methods under the guise of mental toughness and competitive spirit.

If you have worked with me for any meaningful length of time, you have heard me say that change is an additive process. Change in the equestrian world is no different. We will not transform our sport by trying to eliminate the problem alone, whether through legislation or any other method. We need to focus on what we will do instead. We need to champion the values, attitudes, and behaviors we want to see in our community and then challenge ourselves to live those values in every interaction.

Let us create education for coaches that offers truly effective ways to build confidence and support the psychological and emotional wellness of both riders and horses, alongside the technical skills of each discipline. Let us celebrate the coaches and trainers who lift their riders and horses up. And let us help parents learn how to support their young equestrians and become more discerning consumers. Through these efforts, and many others, we can shift the culture from toxic to nurturing.

I deeply believe that the most effective path to change lies in identifying and focusing on what we want rather than what we do not want. When we flood the equestrian world with positive, value based strategies, healthy behaviors, and supportive relationships, we illuminate the dark corners of our industry and leave less and less space for toxicity to take hold. ~Paul

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12/06/2025

Part 2: Triple Crown Balancer
Not every horse needs extra calories, but every horse needs balanced nutrition.
Our easy keepers and horses on mostly forage thrive on Triple Crown Balancer. It delivers all the essentials: high-quality amino acids for muscle, vitamins + minerals for overall health, and low sugar/starch for a steady mind and body.
Small amount, big impact. 🌱✨

Part 3 is on the way! Next up, we’re breaking down our second favorite feed and why it’s a staple in our program. 👀✨

12/05/2025

Welcome to our 4-Part Triple Crown Nutrition Series!
We get tons of questions about what we feed and why—so we’re breaking it ALL down for you. At Riding Far, nutrition is the foundation of every training program, and Triple Crown gives us the quality + consistency our horses deserve.

Part 1 is just the start—Part 2 drops next!
We’re diving deeper into what fuels our Riding Far herd. Don’t miss it! 👀

𝐐𝐔𝐈𝐙 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄!!!Answer the questions below and if you get mostly A’s or C’s → You’re not alone! A few simple tools can make ...
12/05/2025

𝐐𝐔𝐈𝐙 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄!!!

Answer the questions below and if you get mostly A’s or C’s → You’re not alone!
A few simple tools can make communication smoother with horses and humans.

Don’t worry!!
Want to build even stronger communication skills?

Join us for our free webinar:
𝐄𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐚𝐫𝐧
📅 Monday, December 15 • 1 PM EST

❄️ The first event in the Riding Far Winter Webinar Series

𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 “𝐲𝐞𝐬” 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐤!

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You may intend to ask for a quiet transition… …but your horse feels tension in your seat. You may intend to reassure a s...
12/04/2025

You may intend to ask for a quiet transition…
…but your horse feels tension in your seat.

You may intend to reassure a student…
…but your tone lands as pressure.

You may intend a casual barn comment…
…but someone hears criticism.

This mismatch isn’t failure.
It’s normal.
And the moment you notice it?
That’s the moment communication can actually begin.

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