Kays Reins Of Success

Kays Reins Of Success .

A few clips from today’s lessons. 💙Slowly building a name for myself and learning to stop caring about the people who ha...
06/24/2026

A few clips from today’s lessons. 💙

Slowly building a name for myself and learning to stop caring about the people who have something negative to say. The support, the progress, and the happy riders mean more than any hate ever could.

Just keep working. The results will speak for themselves. 🐴✨

Thank you to everyone who supports me. I appreciate it more then words can ever know🤍

06/10/2026

If you or your kid can’t catch, halter, and lead the horse safely on their own…they’re probably not ready to be trapsing over jumps or running around a barrel pattern.

Somewhere along the way, riding lessons became all about what happens in the saddle. How fast they’re going. What gait they’re doing. How quickly they’re “progressing.”

And a lot of people completely overlook the part that actually creates REAL horsemen. The ground. And no I don't mean how hard it is when you hit it.

If a rider can’t confidently approach a horse, read their body language, halter them correctly, lead them respectfully, and handle them safely before they ever get on…

What exactly are we teaching?

That riding is just sitting on top while someone else handles everything important?

That’s not horsemanship. That’s participation. The era of participation trophies needs to die.

The ground teaches awareness. It teaches timing. It teaches confidence. It teaches students how to read what the horse is feeling before it ever becomes a problem under saddle.

The groundwork tells me way more about a rider’s readiness than whether they can bounce around a few laps at the trot. It also communicates how serious they are about the sport.

That’s why we spend so much time there. I’m trying to create riders who understand the whole animal. That foundation is what keeps them safe later.

I know a lot of programs where you show up, get on an already tacked and groom horse, ride, then pass that horse off. No hate to those programs. There's a space for all kinds in this industry. It's just not for me.

If anyone is looking to get their kiddos into horse riding lessons, I’m now taking on new clients! 🐴✨I work with all lev...
04/14/2026

If anyone is looking to get their kiddos into horse riding lessons, I’m now taking on new clients! 🐴✨

I work with all levels from beginners just learning the basics to kids wanting to build confidence and improve their riding. My goal is to create a safe, fun, and positive environment where they can learn and grow both in and out of the saddle.

Limited spots available! Message me to get your kiddo started 🤍

"We let students trot on the first lesson because it makes it more fun!".....I’m gonna say this a little more plainly…th...
04/14/2026

"We let students trot on the first lesson because it makes it more fun!".....I’m gonna say this a little more plainly…this is gonna be long. Bear with me.

I get it. Fun sells. To a non horse person, trotting is the definition of "fun" and "progress". As a professional, it is our job to change that mindset, not cater to it.

Rushing kids to trot right away just to keep them excited or make parents feel like they’re “doing something” is exactly what I was talking about in my last post.

That’s not good horsemanship. And it’s not putting the kid or horse first.
These are 1,000 lb animals. Not a ride at the fair. They have a mind of their own. Rushing progress isnt creating fun- it's creating risk.

Sometimes our kids walk.
Sometimes they walk for a while.

And yeah… sometimes they get a little bored. Boohoo.

That doesn’t bother me. Because what they’re actually learning in that phase is what keeps them safe later.

You don’t skip basics in anything else, but for some reason people expect to skip them with horses. Kids in gymnastics don’t walk in and go straight to the beam.
They condition. They stretch. They do drills over and over. Football players don’t just show up and start running plays. They practice footwork. Timing. Repetition.
Basketball? You’re not scrimmaging day one. You’re dribbling. Passing. Shooting form.

Walking might not feel exciting to a new kid.
But that’s where they learn balance. Feel. Control.

And honestly…It’s good for kids to not get instant gratification. It’s good for them to be a little bored sometimes. To have to work for something. Build patience.

We’re not here to entertain kids for 30 minutes. We’re here to teach them how to ride.

Even our “just for fun” riders with no competitive desire learn how to do things the right way.

If you want quick fun, go somewhere else. Fall off there. If you want your kid to be confident, capable, and safe around horses- that’s what we do.

04/14/2026

Today we worked with the boys Zeus, my main horse, and a client’s horse, Wesley, focusing on building confidence and consistency. We practiced Presley’s posting to help improve rhythm and control, while also working on desensitizing my client’s horse to make him less spooky and reduce his urge to bolt. It’s all about patience, trust, and creating a solid foundation for both horse and rider 🤍

Now taking new clients for tune-ups and lessons!
Message me to book tune-ups or get your horse going in the right direction!

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