05/27/2026
Ok, I know the *scientific* definition of "positive" in the context of horse training, but I couldn't help but resonate with this, too.
The original audio is talking about this in terms of mindset for parenting our children - and if there's anything I've learned as both a mother, R+ horse trainer, and an R+ youth equestrian instructor...it's that there are many parallels in how we can shift our mindset to set ourselves and our learners up for better success each time we foster our interactions.
I want to be known as a mother, trainer, and instructor that does exactly this βπΌ
Having a nature within me that:
Pauses.
Holds space.
Considers.
And I'll add:
Empathizes.
Focuses on connection and clarity over degrading correction.
Builds confidence towards resilience.
Sets a more successful path forward.
R+ is not inherently going to provide a better way in training, but it does provide more opportunity for this shift in mindset.
It helped me become curious. It helped me stay humble when I wanted to "know it all." It helped me understand my horses better. Gave me a perspective I was never taught before. Helped me become a better advocate, a better student, and a better trainer through the process (and still continuing).
It's why I chose this path forward 6 years ago in my youth academy and for my training clients over traditional approaches.
Because once you dig in to unlearning and relearning through a different lense, your expectations will shift. Your priorities will change.
All for the better for my horses and students alike π«ΆπΌ