01/12/2026
Antares Breakthroughs with Ropes, Hooves & Park Please
Sara came up to visit and played with Antares. We started with Give Me Rope games. Antares has been terrified of ropes and not safe to lead outside a small enclosure because if startled he would rip the line out of my hand. I took five ropes of different sizes and shapes: Shorty, Hasp, String, Rope and Halter and placed them on the ground, asking Antares to give me the named rope. He handed them to me. I then had Sara play the game with him. At first, he went for the wrong rope or tried to give it to me, but as he started to trust her, he gave her the requested ropes.
Trust gained through the Give me Rope game allowed Antares to hand his four hooves to Sara in the Hoof Please Game. Sara is the 5th person he has given his hooves to, not just in the small paddock, but in the large paddock as well!
Next up, I snapped on the lead. Ropes attached to his halter are the context where he fears ropes the most. Any pressure on the line would trigger panic. I allowed the belly of the rope to lie on the ground between us. He did not react in fear, freezing in place. He considered that rope, shook his head, experimentally at first, then more strongly, then actually sent the line toward me! He controlled that rope, it was not controlling him! I waited for him, allowing him to process this discovery. Janet came up. We chatted. Antares reached down to grab the rope on the ground. I asked him if he could give it to me and he DID! Fear and play are incompatible parts of the brain and Antares was crossing from Fear to Play in real time. I credit the Give me Rope game for this. It opened up the door to Antares seeing the rope, not as a threat, but as a toy.
Next up, I had Sara do some free lunging of Antares at liberty. Antares was a great teacher, responding to her body language, whether she meant to say what she did or not! She did a better whoa with him than I did, straight and soft. A good Wait too.
Next up, we played with Park Please and this video is a text book example of the human not paying enough attention to when the horse starts to become uncomfortable with your asks. I started by standing on the mounting block, rather than sitting on it. Antares showed doubt, but quickly said standing was fine, as was my rubbing his neck and back with my hands. I started to rub his back with my foot and he leaned away. I was consistently too slow in breaking off when I started to worry him. The goal at this stage of learning Park Please is to ensure that the horse loves everything you are doing with him because you want him to immediately ask if he can Park Please for you. I asked too much of him, not so much that I scared him, but too much, too quickly, for him to love it. Standing is now OK, rubbing his back and butt is OK for short time periods. Do not yet go over the center line until he is OK with my doing it with my hands. Pay attention to his body language and get out sooner! Live and learn Jackie
Many thanks to Sara for her coming up to play with Antares, Mystic and Amadeo.
Antares Breakthroughs with Ropes, Hooves & Park PleaseSara came up to visit and played with Antares. We started with Give Me Rope games. Antares has been t...