
08/17/2025
We have all been there... our dog is doing something inappropriate & we end up yelling commands at them, to no avail.
The problem is owners try to direct their dog once they have entered an over aroused state of mind. Your dog is amped up by the environment, you are amped up yelling & the entire interaction is one BIG mess.
It is very difficult to communicate with an over aroused head space. Asking for a “sit” when your dog is already jumping up on your guest will likely do little to help your cause. However the root issue is NOT the fact your dog isn’t sitting. It’s the manner of the greeting... the energy & mental state which accompanies it. Instead of using obedience to address behavior problems, use obedience to affect levels of energy & state of mind. This will in turn help your behavior issues.
Back to our example of greetings. If we address our dog at the sound of the doorbell by sending them to “place”, it will immediately minimize arousal. Now you can answer the door without your dog repeating the unwanted behavior. Once your dog is calm, you can allow them to greet your guest & ask for a “sit” prior to receiving affection.
The root of the original behavior was never one of obedience. It was about lowering levels of arousal in order to make your dog successful. So the next time you find yourself yelling commands at your dog, ask yourself about your dog’s state of mind & how you can impact levels of arousal first.