08/19/2025
This!!! If you aren't open to alternative views, and are willing to do what's best for the horse, what are we actually doing?
Prey for Egos
A follower said to me recently: “Horses are no longer prey for lions, now they’re prey for egos.”
(Thank you, Katryna Gamble!)
It struck me because it’s brutally true. Horses once survived by reading the twitch of grass and the flick of a predator’s tail. Now, their survival often depends on how much room a human is willing to leave for the horse itself in the decisions made on its behalf. Too often, that space is crowded out by ego.
Ego makes a practitioner defend a method at all costs — even when the horse is showing them it isn’t working.
Ego makes someone chase the perfect “look” of a foot, while the animal can barely cross the yard.
Ego makes camps circle their wagons, more intent on proving each other wrong than on helping the horses standing in the middle.
And the horse? It doesn’t care about reputations. It doesn’t care about who “won” an argument on Facebook, or whose seminar was better attended. It cares about whether it can load evenly, whether it can stand square, whether it can graze, play, lie down and get back up without pain.
The irony is that egos are loudest where knowledge is thinnest. Those who have seen enough horses, made enough mistakes, and lived through enough outcomes tend to be quieter. They know the work isn’t about being right in theory, it’s about being useful in practice.
The horse has already been made vulnerable by domestication, by breeding choices, by human environments. To make it prey a second time — to ego — is something we can’t afford to excuse.
Strip back the noise, the camps, the personality politics. What matters is the foot on the ground, the horse in motion, the lived reality in front of us. That’s the only scoreboard worth watching.
Horses were never meant to be prey animals twice over.
Just a note from the footpath.