11/10/2023
Riders!
Have you ever met another horse owner at breaking point? No?
Actually the answer is yes. Yes, you have.
They don’t wear a t-shirt, They might not have told you. In fact I’d put good money on them NOT looking rabid & crazy & bellowing ‘LOOK AT ME! I’m as close to the edge as you can get!!
But I can tell you this:
You have met someone who underneath their bluster & brags was secretly wondering how they are going to meet their next haylage bill
You might have met someone who won 3 classes but they were physically & mentally spent.
You might have met someone who has a swanky lorry & posh tack but terrified they are making an utter arse of themselves.
You might have met someone who laughed, joked & acted without a care in the world who inside was riddled with self doubt & fear.
You might have met someone who is just so tired of being strong when it all feels like it is going wrong for them.
So just imagine if you met someone & you gave them *that* smile, you asked if they needed a hand with anything when they were struggling in a warm up, you told them ‘well done’ after their clear round.
Just imagine how lighter their heart would feel if you just asked them if they were ok when they looked worried. Just imagine the joy that could be spread by sharing your moments of idiocy to make someone who’s had a bad day feel better.
No horse has ever jumped better because their rider has bi***ed about someone else. No rosette was won because one person slated another. Making someone else feel bad won’t make your life suddenly all sparkles & free gin. Fact.
In all honesty the best days can be had with poles flying like skittles, dressage tests of utter chaos & walks of shame back from eliminations on the cross country course. The days when you laugh like loons about stupid things you’ve done & cheered on your fellow competitors, they are the days when you come home a champion, no matter what the scoreboard says.
People say that the horse world is ruthless, that it is bitchy. But some of the kindest things I’ve ever witnessed & the best friends I could ever hope for have been made in the horseworld. I know it’s not a bad place.
Let’s be the fist bumping, cheerleading kind sport that we know we can be.
A candle stays just as bright even when it lights another.
Word.