
07/05/2025
Is early weaning the foundation of separation anxiety in dogs?
I started working in the veterinary field in the 80s. I worked at a small 2 doctor practice on the west side of Idaho Falls. We did 2-4 surgeries each morning and saw a few appointments in the late morning and then started appointments again at around 1 pm in the afternoon. We washed and resterilized all the surgery gloves until they had holes in them and the syringes as well. The x-ray machine was a behemoth and it was dip tanks to develop. IV fluids came in glass bottles and thiopental was the anesthesia of choice. And, and most people didn’t wean their puppies until they were 12 weeks old.
I remember that it was just starting to change and people were starting to do it younger but for the most part babies stayed with the mom until she started kicking them off and making them grow up. It is kind of like when we parents are telling our seniors in high school that they need to go out and find a job and be prepared to live on their own. It was a slow and gradual process with increased training of the pups to learn how to be on their own and do their own and figure life out on their own with needing momma to show them. We didn’t seem to have separation anxiety back then.
When I graduated from veterinary school in 1997 the weaning age had become 8 weeks. Dogs were just starting to become more of a family member and less of an animal and more people were making them and having puppies is hard and takes a lot of work and they stink and so all of a sudden it was no longer about what was best for the puppy but what was best for the human and a few studies that could show that it seemed like physically it didn’t matter and *boom* all of sudden it was the accepted age to pull puppies away from their mom and send them out into the world. I will liken it to deciding that your 14 year old can go out and get a job and be on their own. We were just at the tip of starting to see anxiety issues but it was attributed to people who were too involved in their dogs life.
After a few year of mixed animal practice I started a large animal only mobile practice and drove around the state taking care of horses and cows and did not pay much attention to what was going on in the small animal world. Then, then I had kids of my own and so the conception and realization of Desert Cross Veterinary Hospital became a thing. I had been out of school for a little over a decade and the people bringing in puppies for vaccines were now bringing in puppies at 6 weeks and often younger. At the time I, like all the rest of us, assumed that since they were able to eat solid food, send them out the door. Once again, doing what is best and easiest for us humans mentally and economically but without consideration of what we might be doing to the emotional and mental health of the puppy that is barely figuring out life and is not thrust out the door and on their own with no mom and no siblings and just some human that leaves it in a crate for half the day because it isn’t old enough yet to have great control over its bladder and re**um and doesn’t know anything other than peeing and pooping whenever it wants to. Imagine now that you are shoving your 9 year old kid out the door and telling them to figure out life on their own.
I do think that anxiety, regardless of how one wants to define it or name it, is multi factorial. There is rarely ever just one cause. I believe that our overly processed and highly inflammatory diets play a big role in anxiety in our dogs as well as just how we treat them and cater to them and treat them like they are humans when they are dogs and while smart, they do not have the ability to reason and act far more out of instinct, an instinct that is severely handicapped because they were ripped from their mother before learning how to deal with and navigate their instincts.
There is not a single day that I go through any longer where I do not have people ask me about anxiety in their dog or tell me that their dog has anxiety. It is an epidemic, a pandemic if you will and it is all our fault, us humans because we want what is easiest for us and we want what we want right now and we do not want to wait. We selfishly demand puppies so that they imprint on us without realizing that by doing so we are destroying their mental and emotional health, all for us and our wants without considering what is best for the dog.
If you are going to get a puppy and you are paying a lot of money for it, shoot even if you are getting it for free, tell the breeder you don’t want it until it is 12 weeks old. I promise you, it will grow to love you and be all that you want it to be but it will be able to do that in a more mentally healthy way. If you are a breeder, consider keeping your puppies until they are 12 weeks old and allow for a more natural weaning process to take place. I know, I know some mammas hate their puppies but maybe those mammas shouldn’t be having puppies if they are not mentally in a spot where they can love them and train them?
Maybe, just maybe it is time that we humans actually consider what is best of the dogs and not what is best, easiest or what we want. Just some food for thought.