07/13/2026
❌“When used correctly…”
Usually an attempt to argue that a certain tool isn’t harmful. Some things are inherently designed to work with pain and discomfort. If they didn’t hurt, they wouldn’t work.
❌ Blaming the owner.
Putting an anxious guardian at fault for a dog’s behavior issues fails to recognize the complexity of dog behavior.
❌ Trainers who never suggest a veterinary workup.
Underlying medical conditions can be factors in anywhere from 33-80% of behavior cases. Qualified behavior pros know when to send you back to the vet.
❌ “Some breeds need a heavier hand.”
There is no living being on this planet that requires pain to learn. Some trainers just need better skills.
❌ Correcting a dog for having a reaction.
It may stop the behavior in the moment, but it has high risk for fallout down the road. Plus, see above regarding pain and behavior. You’re gonna zap or yank a dog who’s yelling because they’re hurt? Mkay.
❌ “You need to be the pack leader.”
This theory is outdated and debunked. Dogs aren’t pack animals. Let’s catch up to the 21st century.
❌ Expecting dogs to act like robots.
The need some people have to control another living being’s every move is honestly unsettling. Giving my dogs as much opportunity to be dogs as possible is one of the greatest joys of my life.
❌ “Don’t comfort your dog when they’re scared.”
Fear is an emotion, not a behavior. You can’t reward (reinforce) an emotion. You can, however, be your dog’s advocate and anchor.
❌ Not using food in training.
Choosing not to employ what may be the most universally effective tool we have to influence dog behavior for what, your own ego? They should do it because we say so or else? Nah man.
What else needs a red card in dog training?
