04/26/2026
This is a followâup to my last post about puppy biting.
A lot of different methods get suggested for stopping mouthing, so I want to clarify what I use in my training methods â and why I choose not to use certain techniques. This isnât about criticizing other trainers. Itâs simply about the approach that aligns with my philosophy and supports longâterm behavior and emotional stability in the dogs I work with.
Iâm a balanced trainer who uses a high amount of positive reinforcement, paired with structure, boundaries, and fair consequences. Iâm not âpositive only,â but I also donât use techniques that create conflict, increase arousal, or interfere with a dogâs ability to trust hands.
Some commonly suggested methods â like lipâpinching (âpop the grapeâ), scruff shaking, or pushing a hand deeper into the puppyâs mouth â arenât part of my program. Not because I avoid corrections, but because of what these techniques tend to do to a puppyâs nervous system:
Why I donât use those methods:
- They increase arousal instead of reducing it.
Puppies mouth most when theyâre overstimulated. Pain, surprise, or physical restraint spikes adrenaline, which often makes the behavior stronger.
- They create conflict around hands.
Puppies learn through association. If hands repeatedly cause discomfort, you can end up with avoidance, defensiveness, or a dog that becomes more frantic when touched.
- They donât teach impulse control.
These techniques interrupt the moment, but they donât build the puppyâs ability to pause, think, or regulate â which is the actual root of mouthing issues.
- They can trigger panic or defensive reactions.
Especially methods involving the mouth or throat. A correction should give information, not create fear.
These reasons have nothing to do with being âpositive only.â Theyâre about clarity, communication, and longâterm behavior.
Hereâs what I do focus on:
⢠Highâvalue reinforcement for calm, thoughtful behavior
Rewarding soft mouth, choosing a toy, sitting for attention, and selfâsettling. Reinforcement builds the behaviors I want repeated.
⢠Impulseâcontrol and regulation training
Short, structured exercises like sit â release, hand target, âwait,â and place work. These build the puppyâs ability to pause and regulate excitement.
⢠Ensuring appropriate sleep
Most puppies need 16â18 hours of sleep in 24 hours. Overtired puppies mouth more, settle less, and escalate faster.
⢠Crate or pen time as proactive regulation
Used predictably, not punitively. A quiet space with a chew or stuffed Kong helps the puppy decompress before they hit an overâaroused state.
⢠Managing arousal before it spikes
Shorter play sessions, more sniffing, calmer activities, and avoiding rough play that pushes the puppy over threshold.
⢠Fair, calm consequences
If mouthing gets too hard, I use simple, consistent consequences like briefly ending the interaction. No yelling, no physical conflict â just clarity and patterning.
Balanced training isnât about avoiding corrections or relying only on rewards.
Itâs about using the right tools at the right time, teaching the puppy how to regulate, and building behavior through clarity, structure, and reinforcement.