04/08/2026
I hope you find a trainer that truly cares about your horse.
Not for their ego or their pride, bragging rights, or ribbons.
I hope your trainer loves your horse and considers their well-being.
I hope they advocate for your horse, and encourage you to do the same.
I hope that they see when your horse needs less, or needs more.
I hope they can see when your horse might be in pain or have a medical condition.
I hope they are humble and aren’t afraid to ask for mentorship.
I hope they constantly are willing to learn.
I hope they are tough at the right moments, and soft at all of the others.
I hope they are willing to invest hours upon hours, with the same enthusiasm they started with. Sometimes with little to no reward.
I hope they can laugh and joke in times of frustration.
I hope they can correct or discipline—without an ounce of angst in their heart.
I hope they know that they can hold the horse’s fate in their hands.
How the horse’s first “new” moments are so vital.
I hope they care when your horse needs more time, even if it makes them seem less skillful.
I hope they care when your horse needs a smaller goal, because their goal for today was too big.
I hope they are willing to throw away everything they think they know—when the horse needs a different way.
I hope your trainer considers the horse a friend.
I hope your trainer will work for the horse, not the people, the money, ribbons, glory, or pride.
I hope your trainer will forever be an indebted student of the horse.
I hope that your trainer loves what they do and feels honored to do it. ♥️