Happy Hearts Horsemanship

Happy Hearts Horsemanship Mindful horsemanship with a focus on training for soundness and building confidence in the horse/human partnership

Starting them later is admirable, but dont forget these other very important peices of the puzzle. I have a 2 year old c...
08/06/2025

Starting them later is admirable, but dont forget these other very important peices of the puzzle. I have a 2 year old c**t and I plan on taking it slow with him when it comes to the riding aspect. This is a great reminder of all the things I can and should be doing with him to get him prepared.

I absolutely love this photo of Brent and my c**t Cosmo. What a gift to have him be a part of my first home grown babies...
08/06/2025

I absolutely love this photo of Brent and my c**t Cosmo. What a gift to have him be a part of my first home grown babies development 💗

Photo Credit goes to Cheryle Dee ❤️

I had the pleasure of spending this weekend with one of my amazing teachers, Brent Graef! I went home with so many new e...
08/04/2025

I had the pleasure of spending this weekend with one of my amazing teachers, Brent Graef! I went home with so many new exercises and tools to take home for my boys, my training horses and students.

Horsemanship is a forever journey and its a gift to be able to learn from masters like Brent. There are many great teachers out there. I try to find the ones who fit my philosophy, the ones who put the horses needs first but also the ones who show kindness to their students and the horses.

If you get the chance to see Brent Graef teach or better yet a chance to ride with him, I highly recommend that you take advantage of that opportunity.

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08/02/2025

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There are many roads to Rome - how do you know what’s a good path for you?

Everyone comes from a different walk of life, has different aspirations for themselves and their horse, and lives in a different culture or location- all of these things will affect what type of work you seek out.
I love what I do, but it would be insanity to say there is one path for all. I take the same approach to choices in horsemanship as I do spirituality : there is a truth for everyone: find what calls to you and walk it with your whole being.

But, there is a lot of stuff out there that just doesn’t serve horse or man. A lot of fluff, a lot of smoke and mirrors, and some carefully curated images that don’t reflect a reality to the consumer.

So how do you know what’s right for you?

1- watch for manipulative language. This one’s very important. Does the wording make you jump toward it to feel like you aren’t a bad, cruel person? Nobody wants to be cruel or bad, and some advertisements and writing use very slippery wording to make you feel you’re either in or out, good or bad, and if you want to be good you’d better jump on the bandwagon.

They can use a sprinkle of scientific or anatomical sounding language to serve you up a 💩 sandwich - you know just enough to know they know more than you. Proceed here with extreme caution - what are they actually selling you? Does it really benefit you or the horse? Keep an open mind and protect yourself.

2- does it paint a fantasy picture? Catering to strong emotion is a very easy way to gain and keep business. Relating to your inner child, lots of slow motion videos with music of things you likely don’t need to be doing with your horse- if you need help leading your horse safely but are becoming enamored by videos of slow motion horses galloping around with unicorn wings and a half naked man directing them - well, let’s just say this one should be obvious. Showmanship is fun, enjoy that for what it is - but be realistic - if you’re hungry you need nutrition, not candy 😉

3- does it portray honestly what kind of horse and person it’s for? Some programs work best for folks who are competitive riders, or trail riders, or gaited horses, or whatever - what kind of horse do you have or want to have, and what kind of rider are you? What kind of riders and horses is the advertising displaying? That’s a very important piece here because not all methodologies suit all types of horses and people. You need to know who the target market is because if you’re not it, chances are it might not help you.

These are just a few.
There are so many good horsemen and women out there and some not so - it’s not for anyone to tell you how to make that choice for yourself but yourself. Make an informed, conscious decision and don’t be swayed by manipulation or heavy appeal to emotion. See how it works for your horse and enjoy your time learning.

Today we had the last Tiny Tots class of the year. So many happy little hearts have been touched this season. Thank you ...
07/30/2025

Today we had the last Tiny Tots class of the year. So many happy little hearts have been touched this season. Thank you for all the hard work and openness to learning about what Horsemanship is all about! Stay tuned for next Spring when we open for enrollment again. Enjoy the rest of your summer ☀️

Back in the saddle with Lil Bit. She has been displaying some behaviors that have lead her owner and I down a few rabbit...
07/30/2025

Back in the saddle with Lil Bit. She has been displaying some behaviors that have lead her owner and I down a few rabbit holes to rule out physical pain as a contributor and now its time to work through her mental loops she gets herself in while riding. Whether the behaviors came from prior pain and now its a fear of pain issue or poor training methods that has caused it, its my job to get to the route and help her work through it.

Rehabilitation can be a long road, and its proving to be the case for Lil Bit. Sometimes it takes months and sometimes it can take years. I'm thankful that her owner has trusted me to help her through the process.

Some great FAQ and answers about Hidalgo saddles!Tiffani Martin Radake is great to deal with. She will be here for the B...
07/30/2025

Some great FAQ and answers about Hidalgo saddles!

Tiffani Martin Radake is great to deal with. She will be here for the Balance & Comfort Clinic Returns to WA and will be offering a few private saddle fittings on September 7th in Stanwood WA for anyone interested.

She can help you evaluate the current fit of your saddle, help point out things to look for to help fit your horse. Whether you have an english or western saddle. We will also have at least 3 different types of Hidalgo saddles to try out if interested. Zero pressure to buy. Our goal is to help you find the best solution for you and your horse.

How do 98% of my conversations go with inquiring clients?

Leather Tree Saddles have a break in process......plain and simple.

***pictured below; same horse, same saddle.--top pic is before complete "Breaking in process", bottom photo is after breaking in process.----you can see the huge changes in how deep the seat got for the rider, it literally conforms to the riders femur & sit bone pressures (the saddle is limited on how far it can adapt down because it does have a leather structure, stirrup bar and panel system---this means your horse will always be protected)---the saddle also softens up to the horses unique curves as well.

****COMMON CONERNS AND NEED TO KNOW'S****

❗️The leather tree needs weight, time and heat to properly adapt or fit to your horse. ---

🤔***Does this mean it doesn't fit from day 1?
--- No! It means the saddle will start to fit closer and settle in more as you use it if it is properly adjusted. ----if the panels are set wrong, it won't fit properly. There is a technique to this and this saddle should NOT be treated as a treeless or rigid tree saddle. It is not the same.

🤔***Will it feel perfect to me & my horse immediately?
---Sometimes, sometimes not. ---as long as we can verify the horse is protected (panels are applying pressure in the right places) then it can take some hours before if feels "at home". ---the tree is LEATHER it WILL change as you use it which means you adjust the panels to accommodate the changes in the leather tree. Just like your leather boots, leather belt, Birkenstock sandals....etc. ---good news for the horse is, there is NO rigid gullet bar or tree bars to worry about damaging withers, scapula, spinal column, top line during the fitting process. You will receive feed back from your horse and you make adjustments from there. ---if you buy a saddle from me, YOU ALWAYS have my support. I may not be available the moment you text me, but I will do my best to respond back ASAP.

🤔***Will I ever have to adjust the saddle panels again?
---OF COURSE YOU WILL! ---this is the entire premise of an adjustable saddle system. Your horse changes frequently throughout the year. You change frequently throughout the year. ---you are welcome to learn how to properly adjust them with the help of your Hidalgo rep, or your Hidalgo rep can advise you via photos or videos, or you can hire a saddle fitter to come help you in person. But yes, you should expect the panels to need adjusting from time to time (much more often in the breaking in process)--the same as your English saddle needing new flock or new gullet bar, or your Western saddle bar angle no longer fits your horse, etc.

🤔***I am in a hurry and don't trust myself to learn remotely and/or don't have time to mess with things. Is this a good saddle for me?
---NO! Not unless you can hire a trusted saddle fitter and allow them to advise you 100% in person.

***The saddle feels unstable!!
---95% of the time, this is a panel placement error. The more narrow the saddle panels are fit, the worse it feel to the horse and the more the saddle will want to roll around.

***I lunged my horse in my new Hidalgo and it keeps slipping forward.
---Yes, because the saddle does not have any rigid gullet bar or tree points to stop the saddle from going forward. You have to give the saddle time to break in and "shape up" to the horses back before it becomes secure when no rider is in the saddle. ----adding a rider allows the tree to "take a bite" and get traction when the saddle tree is NEW. ----I don't expect any new leather tree saddle to NOT slip at a rider-less lunge when it isn't broken in. ----another issue could be your panels are too long and the shoulders and croup of the horse are playing "tug of war".

🤔***What do Hidalgo leather tree adjustments look like?
---Removing the panels, and reattaching them via velcro attachment (with support from your Hidalgo rep or informed saddle fitter)----The average adjustment = making the front of the panels more wide or narrow by 1/2" increments as the saddle breaks in----or as your horse develops more topline. Or using a shimmable pad properly and or other types of pads (think of this as flocking for balance corrections as we can't flock the Hidalgo felt/foam panels) -----the more "hard to fit" your horse is, the more you will have to tinker with this to produce the ideal fit. ---as time goes by, you get so used to the behavior of the saddle that this becomes a non thought.

In a nut shell, you must DESIRE a saddle that adapts to you and your horse, you must DESIRE a saddle that you can have control over and you must DESIRE a saddle that requires you to learn the basics of saddle fit anatomy if you want a leather tree saddle. This all REQUIRES patience, determination and ambition! Sometimes it goes easy, sometimes it is a bit hard------the pay off is having a saddle that acts like an extra layer of skin to your horse, and it can potentially save you lots money in saddle adjustment fees, new saddles, etc.---if none of that is for you, I would advise against this investment. :) ------there are times where these saddles will not work for a horse/rider pair no matter how hard we try,...but they work more times than they don't :)

I'm excited to see Brent next weekend! If he's coming to your area, you wont want to miss it 🤠
07/26/2025

I'm excited to see Brent next weekend! If he's coming to your area, you wont want to miss it 🤠

Numerous clinics are already full, and several more are getting close. Reserve your spot before it's too late! https://www.brentgraef.com/schedule/

Brio is a very challenging horse/pony to fit. He has a very short back and big shoulders of an Arabian. He also put on a...
07/25/2025

Brio is a very challenging horse/pony to fit. He has a very short back and big shoulders of an Arabian. He also put on a few extra lbs since coming to his new home which only threw a wrench in the saddle fitting process even more. With the help of Tiffani at , we were able to get his new Cordoba fit just right for him. I made adjustments to the rigging to get the girth to line up to his girthing channel and gradually made the panels wider until we got the right fit. Paired with the Grandeur Physio pad, now were ready to ride!

I just had to share this adorable picture one of my Tiny Tots drew.  Zoey riding Chip and me walking next to them and us...
07/25/2025

I just had to share this adorable picture one of my Tiny Tots drew. Zoey riding Chip and me walking next to them and us say No to a hay bag we're walking past. Absolutely adorable 😍

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