06/19/2026
It has a name, 'Anticipatory Grief', as friends here helped to identify, and it has an anecdote, 'Today's Joy'.
Many caregivers struggle with the balance of what is here today, and what we know is coming tomorrow, and it's a skill one needs to practice, remaining in the 'now'. This is the place to get plenty of that practice! There are 6-8 seniors here that we expect are enjoying their last nice seasons. That is just how it is and we must not be sad in advance of what we cannot stop. Recognizing the human penchant for advance sorrow, and after we have run the medical tests and understand what is going on, and our limits as limited life forms, we must simply embrace the joy. Love watching our friends find yummy grass, groom together, enjoy a sweet brushing, dig into a good bowl of food made just for them. Our difficulty as we brace for the emotional pain of what is coming ought not to be one of the last things they carry. Love is all they will feel from us while they live, still. This is the Sanctuary part of rescue, the part where we keep them safe for life.
This is the part where we keep our promise.