04/02/2025
Hobby or Lifestyle?
A life with horses is different than boarding a horse at a barn.
A life with horses is different than volunteering at a stable.
A life with horses is different than going to a lesson once or twice a week. A life with horses is different than being an employee or even a manager at an equine facility. A life with horses is different than being a groom, trainer or exerciser at an equine facility.
Itβs different when you have your own horses in your backyard (or down the way), and you are solely responsible for the property upkeep, vet bills, feed bill, hay bill and farrier bill. When it is freezing outside and you know you have to get up and go out to feed & water YOUR animals, because there is no one else, it's different. When you are running a 102 degree fever, but your horse needs hay, and you have to go feed, it's different. When it is you responsible for fixing a broken fence in the middle of a thunder storm because you are responsible for your horse, it's different. When you get a 4 am call from your neighbor saying your horse is out and you have to go in pajamas and wrangle all of your horses in the middle of the night, itβs different. When you are filthy, tired and sore and come in at night, but canβt get to sleep because you can't remember if you turned the water off or not, so you climb out of bed & go back outside in the dark to check, it's different.
This is LIFE WITH HORSES. No amount of training/education or weekly lessons can fully prepare you for daily LIFE WITH HORSES.
There may be days that you will wish you boarded a horse at a facility. It would be so nice to make a weekly visit(s) and love on your horse, knowing someone else was feeding him & doing more work when you leave.
But, Living Life with horses at home is when it becomes a lifestyle not a hobby. You might find yourself riding less & working more. It isnβt easy & you make a lot of sacrifices for it, but the joy of enthusiastic horse-greetings in the morning (with your steaming coffee in hand), plus some added grit & grace and you will continue to choose this Lifestyle of Daily Life WITH Horses.
(Edited & shared from facebook)