12/05/2025
Rope Chewing: A Love Letter to Stress and Coping Mechanisms😅
Every trainer eventually meets the horse who, when faced with the simplest request, decides the only logical response is to grab the lead rope and chew it like it like life depends on it. Some people allow it, even encourage it, insisting it “helps him calm down.” Which sounds sweet, but it is a bit like believing you can handle stress by stress eating half the pantry. Comforting, yes. Helpful, absolutely not.
Rope chewing does not mean anything cool. It is not healthy self regulation. It is not emotional intelligence. It is a stress behaviour. A flashy little signal that says, “I am not okay doing this and my brain has left the building.” Once a horse is coping like this, the learning part of the brain quietly packs its bags. No horse can absorb new information while simultaneously trying to swallow the equipment.
My approach is simple. I do not punish it. I am not trying to create a villain with a dramatic backstory about “disrespect.” I just calmly interrupt the chewing and redirect that frantic energy into purposeful movement.
Movement helps the nervous system settle, brings the horse back into its body, and gives me a chance to make the task clearer. Movement is a horse’s natural way to cope with stress, and rope chewing only becomes an option when they feel stuck, restrained, or unmotivated to move. So help them channel the stress the way nature intended. Once the horse understands the task and feels safe doing it, the rope immediately loses its appeal and the horse settles.
But rope chewing is not always about confusion in the moment. Sometimes it is pointing to something deeper. When a horse turns to the rope, the real job is to look at the whole picture. You consider whether the horse is confused, whether the task is fair, or whether the horse is physically struggling in a way that would make even simple things feel impossible. Often it is not a training issue at all but a pain or soundness problem simmering underneath. I see this regularly in horses with chronically sore feet.
Ignore that sign and you might end up with an ulcered, sore, emotionally explosive gelding who now firmly believes lead ropes are the most important thing in their life.
The rope is never the problem, and it is definitely not the solution. It is simply the messenger telling you something is not sitting right for the horse.
When you help the horse understand the task and feel physically capable of doing it, the need for coping fades, the behaviour disappears, and the rope lives to see another day. And that is how you remove stress from your horse’s life and keep your lead rope out of its mouth.👄
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