11/27/2025
This time of year brings so many moving parts—people coming and going, food everywhere, kids running around, new animals visiting, and a whole lot of energy that can feel like too much for many dogs. It’s also the time when we hear from parents after the holiday because something went sideways.
If your dog is sensitive, easily triggered, unsure of new people or places, overwhelmed by children, or reactive around food or visiting animals, the best thing you can do is support them, not push them. Holidays aren’t the moment to stretch a dog’s limits.
During social gatherings, you don’t always have the bandwidth to stay on top of your dog the way you normally do. You’re hosting, talking, cooking, juggling. Other people don’t have the bandwidth either—excitement, noise, alcohol, make judgment slip.
Remember that even people who consider themselves “dog people” don’t always respect your boundaries with your dog. If you suspect that may be the scene at your holiday gathering, be proactive. Set your dog up in separate, safe spaces instead of relying on others. Utilize gates, crates and separate rooms to provide time away.
Give your dog breaks for walks, sniffing, nose work, frozen Kongs or Pupcicles, and mental exercise. And if you’re only able to provide the basics like short walks and potty breaks, that’s ok. A boring day is far better than a bite incident or a full day of practicing behavior & states of mind you don’t want reinforced.
Wishing you and your dogs a peaceful, safe, connected holiday.